The girl I was after....

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Yeah but asking her COLD is not sexy, it puts the girl on the spot, and she has to make a decision based on that. Rather if you go out, have FUN, and then make a move your chances of getting somewhere will be much higher.

That is what you are failing to see.

You may as well send her a message and say, I like you lets have sex.

Again. I had no choice but to ask her on Facebook. I don't know how many times I need to say that.

Also I do realise it is not a good way to ask someone out fall stop.

I would not say it put her 'on the spot' cos I left her a message privately, it was not part of a live conversation so she had plenty of time to think about it.

Anyways.....I believe I am better looking than her ex IF I had hair so if she had turned me down with hair I would have been surprised. Its cos I am bald, or she has her eyes set on sum1 else.

I could keep trying it on with her and u never know but I can't be assed with that shit. I possibly could encourage her to meet up with me on a strictly 'friend' basis and she may accept and then I can woo her when we meet.