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Okay, so I've been dating this really pretty blonde haired, blue eyed girl for a few months and we had been friends before for about a year. I hate smug assholes so I'm not trying to brag, but I'd like to say that I'm a fairly interesting guy. Also not unattractive other than my hair really. I'm working toward a pilots license and an EMT certification, I've got a scuba certification, and I'm a pretty decent guitar player. I go and see a lot of small time concerts and bands on the weekend in the city I live close to, and I do a lot of camping and kayaking trips in the summer. Yet, the bitch ditches me for a dude who is kind of fat, doesn't have a job or direction in life, and only cares about his car and his XBox. Yet, he has hair, and she told me she wished I could do something about my hair but I told her there was only so much I could do. I'm sure that wasn't the only factor but damn guys I treated her like an angel. Way better than I should have I guess. Whatever, I think she'll regret it. Sorry for the rant guys but why do so many people judge on looks alone? Even if it's just a couple of flaws?
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Look for hypergamy and women on Google. You'll understand.
Women have no self-awareness and will worship dudes who are utter losers, to us only, for them, they're perfect.
"He plays the Xbox and tunes his can for now, but he'll get something going for him, you'll see!"
I've seen it so many times man. Not to brag either, but I consider myself a really great guy, I've been with more or less 30 girls in my life.
And they're all, I repeat all the same. They only like you for what you'll bring to the table, for the benefits they can get from you. Never for who you are.
Every guy who truly knows (Western) women will hate them to some degree, there is no way around that.
I've been ditched for a tall dark stranger with a full head of hair too. I've seen it with my own eyes.
My only problem is (was? My hair transplant is coming in nicely) my hair. And unfortunately, I see women won't forget this particular flaw.
Apparently, you can be fat, short, have no hygiene, no direction in life, play video games all the time, and women will still want to be with you.
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Thanks guys for replying. I'm not tall by any means, I'm about average, 5 11' but that guy is about the same height as me anyway. He's also got long douche bag hair that makes this guy look like a kid. I have a tapered, blond, jude law-like hair style and a beard. You're dead on about women Fred, and the reason this one really got to me is that I thought she was different. She thought I was a badass and wanted to do what I did and have fun. Toward the end of our 6 month relationship and you could hardly get her out of her house or get her to look up from her phone. Give me a couple of weeks and I'll probably find someone else. Just the fact that hair was an issue really messes with me. I have pretty high standards personality wise and looks wise, which sounds hypocritical but if an average looking chick really impresses me somehow, I'll go for her. I have standards but I'm not shallow.Comment
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I hate girls liked that, I bet she wore make up? Should have wiped her face clean with Kleenex just to remind her she ain't nothing special.Comment
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This you OP ? http://www.reddit.com/r/confession/c...y_how_much_my/
There you have it folks, this is what I've been saying the WHOLE TIME. Looks will ALWAYS triumph over education and/or personality. Sorry about your loss OP, if you haven't figured it out yet, balding is a big no no in today's society.Comment
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Srry man. Don't have anything else to say. The worst thing once a man starts balding the only women that are interested to him are not those he finds interesting when attractiveness comes to mind.Comment
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The fact is all women are whores and have no empathy , this is a fact and god forbid if I ever have kids and have a daughter!!!Comment
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She sounds like a loser. And I'm hoping everyone on this thread is under 25, cause you all sound like teenagers. Someone intelligent is not going to care if you're going bald. Maybe 20 year old girls care (some of them), but once you get to be in your late twenties girls with any sense (hot and not hot) won't give a ****. The girl who dumped you will end up living in a trailer with her loser husband who will probably beat her. You sound like a productive and great guy, juts forget about your hair and live your life and get shit done, and someone who is worth your time will materialize. It never fails, you just have to retain your self esteem and do good things. Judging by the misogyny and completely ridiculous attitudes on here, I'm surprised any of you have ever been with a woman, and if you have I feel sorry for them.Comment
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I don't have a problem with the girl deciding to leave. Is it effed up? Yes it is, but it would have been worse if she left after a long term relationship. Be happy she didn't waste any more of your time. We all have our standards and she has the right to have hers. She might not like bald guys and you might not like women with small tits and no ass. There are plenty of women out there that are looking for guys with something going for them, find and spend time with those.Comment
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All I need to do is read your username to know you're a moron. And yes, any girl that bases whether or not she wants to stay with her boyfriend on his hair situation is likely an idiot. As I don't know these people, she could have left for any number of reasons that could be perfectly good ones. Maybe its because her boyfriend was on hair loss forums all the time and his insecurity about it bleeds through to his general way of carrying himself. Not every girl that has a preference for a lot of hair is an idiot, but any girl who has that as a deciding factor on whether they stay with someone is definitely shallow and probably dumb, especially if the guy is productive and a good partner otherwise. If someone intelligent loves you, they aren't gonna leave you because of hair. Not every intelligent woman will give a bald guy a chance in the first place, but most will, and most women don't judge handsomeness and attractiveness based on hair.
I say this girl sounds like a loser because she clearly has nothing going on for herself. Someone who sits around in their apartment and does nothing does not sound lil a worthwhile human to spend time with. Also the fact that she left him for a guy who is a mess- pretty clear red flag that she a) has insecurity issues and b) is a waste of space herself. I know NO women at the age of 30 that will have anything to do with a guy who is doing nothing with his life. Only 18 year old girls want to make guys into projects. by their mid 20s girls want to be taken care of or at least have a partner who is equally as ambitious and productive. hair is a miniscule concern. Women are not all whores and in fact they are much more accepting than men of physical flaws, and the fact that young women will have faith in someone and try to better them shouldn't be seen as something counting against them. Every woman will run out of patience if a guy is being a loser, but very few will be shallow enough to leave someone because of the way their hair looks. Either way good riddance to bad rubbish. Maybe your next girl is even hotter or not as hot, but hopefully she's a lot better for you and a lot more deep.Comment
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