Girlfriend dumped me this Thursday... For a guy with a full head of hair

[HairIsLife]

A true death sentence is being bald, short, fat

I'm all three of those, where can I pick up my award ?

[jksl]

I'm all three of those, where can I pick up my award ?

Yeah, but you also have a micropenis?

[HairIsLife]

Yeah, but you also have a micropenis?

Well considering I can't see it without a telescope, I think it's safe to assume so.

[jksl]

Well considering I can't see it without a telescope, I think it's safe to assume so.

Okay, you get the award....

[Sogeking]

Thanks guys, you are spot on most of the things about her lol. She's a natural blond and she doesn't have contacts, she doesn't really have nice tits or that much of an ass, she used to be really self conscious about it, still is to some degree. I told her that it doesn't really matter to me and that she was still really attractive, I'm looking for more than just a piece of ass, I have a good physique and confident around people so getting laid really isn't a problem right now. I'm looking for someone who will go and have a good time with me and not be obsessed with her damn phone all the time. I'm bummed out about it, and the hair comment kinda hurt, but I'm going to try and focus on work and school now and try and forget about women for a while. It's incredibly hard to find a mature girl in high school. The thing is, my hair hasn't really gotten any worse than when we started dating I've been a NW 3 for two years now, if I can maintain that I'll be fine.

High school? High SCHOOL???
Man there is your problem, it is extremely hard to find a mature girl in high school... Damn when I remember girls from my high school. Only few were worth dating regardless of looks... And when you take looks into account those were taken or not interested...
I can't tell you which woman will find you or not find you attractive but as you get older you will find that women also get more mature...

[FlightTL]

Thanks guys, you are spot on most of the things about her lol. She's a natural blond and she doesn't have contacts, she doesn't really have nice tits or that much of an ass, she used to be really self conscious about it, still is to some degree. I told her that it doesn't really matter to me and that she was still really attractive, I'm looking for more than just a piece of ass, I have a good physique and confident around people so getting laid really isn't a problem right now. I'm looking for someone who will go and have a good time with me and not be obsessed with her damn phone all the time. I'm bummed out about it, and the hair comment kinda hurt, but I'm going to try and focus on work and school now and try and forget about women for a while. It's incredibly hard to find a mature girl in high school. The thing is, my hair hasn't really gotten any worse than when we started dating I've been a NW 3 for two years now, if I can maintain that I'll be fine.

When you find a good woman, hold on to her...Do NOT waste your 20s like me. Learn from a sad human being.

[baldduders]

I am 5" 7" bald, starting losing my hair in high school. i am 35 and have seen enough. I have never been without female company and my current relationship is years with a very attractive women, all of my girlfriends were over average attractive, some were very hot.. I am also skinny and hairy lol, i even have a little bit of a deformity on my body, and and have always been a bit of a bum you could say.. I do have a good looking face i have been told but i don't think women are as caught up about looks as men think, they really like a guy to be theres and so you find lots of slimy, great shape, long hair, dudes really can't get laid for the life of them after 25 , let alone a girlfriend because they are assholes, sure some do but you know. I guess am a pretty nice guy, I try to be as Alpha as i can, women like a tough guy, can strong and brave and not big or have hair, and have developed my talents and stuff as much as I can as I have always felt like I had to prove myself.

I would say being bald is about as bad as a women having small boobs.. There is tons of hot girls with small boobs but what guy doesn't mind some small boobs if the girl is right..
I would say being short is about like a women that has a big butt... there is tons of hotties with big butts.

i am straight but i also know a short bald guy is one of the most sought after for gay men, just saying.

Sexual attraction isn't some superficial TV brainwashed, porn watching, bull crap.. it's more like hard to describe and a chemical reaction in your brain, that's why you know you look at some strange looking women and get a raging hardon cause they just are..

So maybe dude, look for a decent women, one that is mature enough to handle a little bald guy, they most probably won't be your typical yuppie chick you might have to start going to burning man or other alternative scenes to start to mingle with beautiful outcast women.

1st of all guys - WORK ON YOUR SELF, nobody wants to date a miserable asshole.. you got to feel good and lucky just to be alive and starting doing useful interesting things before you complain about your hair !

[Cr779]

Wow, jesus I haven't been here in months and I just stopped to pop my head in after feeling a little down about my still progressing hair loss. Surprisingly this thread has cheered me up because seeing some people blow this shit out of proportion really knocks some sense into me. Man to think how much of a deal I used to make out of this.

But anyway, what I meant to post. I'm a guy who started balding at 20 and is now 23 and approaching a norwood 3 or I dunno something close its hard to tell I have curly hair and a weird pattern of loss. Point being, when hair is wet or in the wrong light, or messed up by touching it too much you can tell my hairline is receding and thinning.

I have a girlfriend, she knows I'm balding. She's known for probably 8 or 9 months now(I told her I was balding and asked if she cared). We've been together for 14 months. She doesn't give a single ****. I mean, sure she likes my hair and is sad that I'm losing it. But it doesn't actually bother her in a "lets be serious here" kinda way. She just said "when it starts to get really bad please shave it" which I said was my plan anyway. We're even planning on moving in together in another year, once we have some money saved up and she continually tells me how much she loves me and how "I'm a keeper" and how happy I make her.

She's also 23 and if I do say so myself really hot. I've been told by just about all my friends and family that I did really well for myself and that she's a keeper(both looks and personality).

So this whole "girls will always choose looks" or "being bald is a death sentence" and "only ugly girls or girls in their 30's will date a bald guy" stuff is pure crap. I have 3 other friends all more bald than I am and only a year or two older who all have girlfriends as well. And each of those girls is average at worst(average not being a bad thing either). Like those guys said, find a smart girl with a good head on her shoulders and she'll think about more than if you have hair or not.

[HairIsLife]

Interesting posts. Some days I really don't know what to believe, is this negative perception just all a bunch of shit that I made up and told myself to believe, or does it actually happen in real life ? Some of you say after 25 women don't really give a shit, is that really true ? What else do you have to bring to the table for them to overlook such a cosmetic flaw ?

You can't compare small boobs to hair because the chest doesn't affect the face, so even with a big or small chest, the face remains the same whereas with balding, it completely f*cks up what you had going for you, or maybe that's just in my head too. I don't really know what to think about all this shit anymore.

[hairlosskills]

I cant speak for every girl. But the younger women i know are very vocal about there attraction to a nice head of hair.