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  • UK_
    Senior Member
    • Feb 2011
    • 2744

    #16
    Originally posted by yeahyeahyeah
    ****ing depressing man.

    Why can't hairloss be a treatable condition. I wouldn't mind it if I could properly treat it without potentially ****ing my endocrine system up.

    God has a way of playing sick jokes on men.
    If God existed... he wouldnt have designed us to have our reproductive organs in a mish mash with our urinary system.

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    • UK_
      Senior Member
      • Feb 2011
      • 2744

      #17
      They can augment facial features but not hair lol.

      You can just get plastic surgery these days anyway if you're THAT bothered - most people dont care - but hair loss is something different, it takes you from being a normal 25 year old to lookng like a 55 year old loser.

      ...unfortunately... plastic surgery cant help you... nothing can if you get to that stage

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      • 25 going on 65
        Senior Member
        • Sep 2010
        • 1476

        #18
        Originally posted by yeahyeahyeah
        My hairloss is incredibly slow, still very thick hair, just a NW2. I just hope it stays this way.

        What were your results on fin?
        Maintenance of existing hair, thickening of hairs that were miniaturizing, and minor regrowth (mostly in the crown area and a little on top of my scalp). I am a NW2 but I'm a diffuse thinner. I never had a problem with "slick bald" areas, it was that I was diffuse thinning all over the top of my head. My hair took on a more "wispy" quality because of the miniaturization and I hated it.
        It's gotten significantly better, to the point that I can style my hair to look like a NW1, but it's still a far cry from my teenage hair which I now realize was awesome. I can't wear the same styles I used to and I wouldn't feel comfortable going swimming, or out in strong wind.
        Basically I don't live life to the fullest because I don't want anyone noticing that I've lost hair. It sucks. Fin and keto have worked well for me but really I just want my "real" hair back.

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        • ThinningB420
          Senior Member
          • Apr 2012
          • 169

          #19
          Looks matter but if you're living on looks you're going to live an unhappy life because eventually they wain. The people who are happiest are those who accept themselves for who they are and do the same for others.

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          • yeahyeahyeah
            Senior Member
            • Nov 2011
            • 1818

            #20
            Originally posted by ThinningB420
            Looks matter but if you're living on looks you're going to live an unhappy life because eventually they wain. The people who are happiest are those who accept themselves for who they are and do the same for others.
            TBH I don't ask for much - all I ask for is that I don't go bald. (without ****ing my body up)

            Is that too much to ask God?

            Yours,

            Yeahyeahyeah

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            • 25 going on 65
              Senior Member
              • Sep 2010
              • 1476

              #21
              Well part of it is that while looks wane eventually, for most people that doesn't start happening before mid to late 30s unless it's by choice (bad habits, lack of self-care, etc.). For some it doesn't even happen until much later--Johnny Depp is like 50 now.
              For those of us who started losing hair in our 20s (or even worse, teens), we HAD to start losing our looks at a time when everyone else is in their physical prime. 25, 20, or 16 is a horrible age to start going through something that you never expected to go through for at least another 10-20 years.

              So it's true self-acceptance is a good way to happiness, but it's difficult when you're rushed into that stage years or decades before your peers.

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              • Davey Jones
                Senior Member
                • Apr 2012
                • 356

                #22
                I have a theory (more of a hope) that when hairloss is cured, we're all gonna be better people for it. We'll be less judgmental of other people, 'cause we've been judged so harshly. We're going to really understand that we should accept people no matter what they look like. Understand it in a way that you can only understand if you've been there and come back.

                But it probably won't work that way. Actually, I'm sure it won't, because I still see people on here saying stuff like, "It sucks that all women care about is looks! Why won't she give me the time of day just because I'm bald! Hell, I'll probably end up with a fat, ugly girl."

                We all deserve this. It just sucks that everyone else deserves it too!

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                • yeahyeahyeah
                  Senior Member
                  • Nov 2011
                  • 1818

                  #23
                  Originally posted by Davey Jones
                  I have a theory (more of a hope) that when hairloss is cured, we're all gonna be better people for it. We'll be less judgmental of other people, 'cause we've been judged so harshly. We're going to really understand that we should accept people no matter what they look like. Understand it in a way that you can only understand if you've been there and come back.

                  But it probably won't work that way. Actually, I'm sure it won't, because I still see people on here saying stuff like, "It sucks that all women care about is looks! Why won't she give me the time of day just because I'm bald! Hell, I'll probably end up with a fat, ugly girl."

                  We all deserve this. It just sucks that everyone else deserves it too!
                  Even they are picky mate.

                  With that said, as much as we bitch about people not giving us the time and the day. We are just as shallow for discriminating against fat, ugly girls, they need love too.

                  Rather, the real problem with hairloss, is that it strips our identity away, I never did once ever see myself as a bald man. Screw that shit.

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                  • ThinningB420
                    Senior Member
                    • Apr 2012
                    • 169

                    #24
                    Originally posted by 25 going on 65
                    Well part of it is that while looks wane eventually, for most people that doesn't start happening before mid to late 30s unless it's by choice (bad habits, lack of self-care, etc.). For some it doesn't even happen until much later--Johnny Depp is like 50 now.
                    For those of us who started losing hair in our 20s (or even worse, teens), we HAD to start losing our looks at a time when everyone else is in their physical prime. 25, 20, or 16 is a horrible age to start going through something that you never expected to go through for at least another 10-20 years.

                    So it's true self-acceptance is a good way to happiness, but it's difficult when you're rushed into that stage years or decades before your peers.
                    I agree with what you said. I don't mind balding if I were ten years older. At that age it would seem normal. I don't think my looks are terrible as a result of balding. I think I look abnormal for my age.

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                    • NotBelievingIt
                      Senior Member
                      • Oct 2011
                      • 595

                      #25
                      someone being ugly is well, just ugh.

                      But a bunch of fat girls would turn hot if they lost weight and toned up.

                      Take a look at some of the Extreme Makeover: Weight Loss Edition gals.

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                      • 25 going on 65
                        Senior Member
                        • Sep 2010
                        • 1476

                        #26
                        Originally posted by NotBelievingIt
                        someone being ugly is well, just ugh.

                        But a bunch of fat girls would turn hot if they lost weight and toned up.

                        Take a look at some of the Extreme Makeover: Weight Loss Edition gals.
                        Here in the USA most people are overweight or obese (or "morbidly obese," "super obese," whatever the categories are). I often see overweight women who I can tell would be very good looking when they get into shape.
                        I wish it was like that for MPB. "Oh, that guy will look great once he gets around to regrowing his hair."

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                        • yeahyeahyeah
                          Senior Member
                          • Nov 2011
                          • 1818

                          #27
                          Originally posted by NotBelievingIt
                          someone being ugly is well, just ugh.

                          But a bunch of fat girls would turn hot if they lost weight and toned up.

                          Take a look at some of the Extreme Makeover: Weight Loss Edition gals.

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                          • NotBelievingIt
                            Senior Member
                            • Oct 2011
                            • 595

                            #28



                            It sad he put it back on

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                            • DepressedByHairLoss
                              Senior Member
                              • Feb 2011
                              • 876

                              #29
                              Originally posted by 25 going on 65
                              Here in the USA most people are overweight or obese (or "morbidly obese," "super obese," whatever the categories are). I often see overweight women who I can tell would be very good looking when they get into shape.
                              I wish it was like that for MPB. "Oh, that guy will look great once he gets around to regrowing his hair."
                              Bro, that's what really frustrates me more than anything. Overweight people have a chance to improve their situation and looks by exercising and getting on a healthy diet. But with MPB, there is no solution. That's why I would give anything to be overweight as opposed to suffering from hair loss. At least if a person is overweight, the opportunity is out there to lose a ton of weight. But a person with hair loss is really screwed when it comes to effective options out there. That being said, I will concede the Propecia does help to slow down hair loss (sometimes drastically). But in terms of hair regrowth, the options are downright laughable.

                              Anyway, you are right about more people being obese or overweight here in the U.S. more than anywhere else in the world. And I really do believe that the pharmaceutical companies and other entities literally make a fortune from providing people with drugs to treat a variety of things. Meanwhile, if these people adopted a healthy diet and exercised regularly, then I believe that they wouldn't even need a lot of these drugs to treat their specific conditions. I even remember Spencer saying that he had some type of infection (or some other kind of ailment) and the doctor wanted to put him on some type of drug for it. Yet Spencer refused to get on this drug and instead changed his diet dramatically and maybe made a few other changes to his lifestyle. As a result, I think he said that he felt 80% better, or that the infection or ailment was 80% removed from his body or something like that, on his radio show. The action that Spencer took actually inspired me to change my own diet and lifestyle recently. I eliminated lots of junk food and started running again. As a result, I think that my hair texture and volume is a lot better as well as my overall health. I really think that in today's society, we have crappy food marketed to us left and right and as a result of bad diets and habits, some people develop various ailments and then have drugs prescribed to them to treat said ailments. Whereas I believe that if people just improved their diets and lifestyles, then their ailments would be gone or the symptoms severely reduced without the need for prescription drugs. Man, I really wish this applied more to hair loss.

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                              • mpb47
                                Senior Member
                                • Apr 2012
                                • 676

                                #30
                                Originally posted by NotBelievingIt
                                If you want it to stay off, you have to do only things that are doable over the long term. Eat less, but don't starve yourself. Only do exercises you like ..that way you will stay with it and not give up.

                                That poor guy should have asked for help. That is stress eating, been there done that.

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