I think you are kind of missing the point of hiring an escort. She is not there because she is attracted to you. Now I am not saying you are unattractive, but good looking or not, she only there because you are paying $350. You could be a NW7 and she wouldn't give a damn.
06-22-2013 07:05 PM
Dan26
You are either not comfortable with yourself or not comfortable with the girl!
Find yourself a girl that you can have a FWB situation with or even a girlfriend etc if you chose so, and initially ie the first time this may be a problem but you will quickly get comforatable with her and be fine.
06-22-2013 09:39 PM
Proper
Lol no1 is answering the question. I have some buddies that do this cause they see it as trophies to add onto their list. and be ause they have money. But no... You don't have to wet your hair unless it looks greasy and dirty. The whole point of showering is so they know you're hygenically taken care of. I mean hygiene is a big part of life these days. Plus, they would like it if you smelled good and your chest hairs or whatever don't have residual dried sweat and shit on it. And for gods sale, clean underneath that foreskin for the love of god. Even if you're gonna be wearing a condom.
Prostitutes have requests too.
06-23-2013 08:48 AM
BigThinker
Wow what a great thread to wake up to. Going to be a good day today.
Although I've never even seen an escort, I know women in general are big on hygiene. Also she's not going to turn down your 350 because you had a receding hairline. However if you're self conscious its probably going to affect your D game. Just show up clean and take a power shower if she forces you. Anxiety and self doubt will kill your boner everytime. Have a shot to chill yourself out prior or something.
I could never picture myself with an escort but I'm all for guys who want it to have it. Fee for service brah. Don't me the naysayers tell you otherwise.
06-23-2013 10:22 AM
25 going on 65
Why can you not just wash & dry/style your hair before you see her?
& for the guys who look down on being with escorts, honestly it seems like a legitimate approach to sex drive IMO.
Pulling women "for free" is more about validation than sex.
06-23-2013 11:50 AM
DepressedByHairLoss
Well, it's like I always say: if prostitution was legal, affordable, and regulated, it would take lots of women off of their pedestals that they reside upon and they wouldn't play as hard to get as they do now. Damn, my posts are usually serious and related to hair loss so I kinda feel bad about posting this!
06-23-2013 12:50 PM
clandestine
DBHL; you're entirely right, though. If prostitution were legal (regulated, screens for sti's, etc.) it would absolutely take the pu.ssy off the pedestal so to speak.
I've never considered this previously, but its entirely true.
06-23-2013 01:22 PM
baldozer
Quote:
Originally Posted by DepressedByHairLoss
Well, it's like I always say: if prostitution was legal, affordable, and regulated, it would take lots of women off of their pedestals that they reside upon and they wouldn't play as hard to get as they do now. Damn, my posts are usually serious and related to hair loss so I kinda feel bad about posting this!
Not true, prostitution is legal in many western countries, but women over there are as hypergamous as anywhere else.
06-23-2013 01:45 PM
BigThinker
The fact that men are willing to pay for ***** is testament enough that there's an imbalance between the genders, regardless of the presence of laws. Men will give up more (date down, spend money, jeopardize or dismiss friendships). Women can be guilty of it too; there are straight male prostitutes, females will jeopardize friendships and spend money. It's just disproportionate in frequency and intensity.
There's no reason to overthink it really. Just figure out what you want and pursue it by whatever appropriate means.
06-23-2013 09:08 PM
Aames
Quote:
Originally Posted by baldozer
Not true, prostitution is legal in many western countries, but women over there are as hypergamous as anywhere else.
Exactly. It simply changes the dynamics slightly. Very few women are willing to give out sex with zero compensation (be it monetary, emotional, etc).
OP, I hope this thread hijack leads you on a journey of personal growth. Preferably one in which you no longer worry about showering for escorts and instead shower for general hygiene and happiness. I, personally, really look forward to showers; especially post-gym. I often spend an hour or two in there contemplating my life and my place in the world. It is amazing how much thinking you can get done in there.
