Well folks I suppose I should update you all seeing as this thread has grown quite a bit. The original girl mentioned in this thread is kind of a complicated girl, to say the least...I came on too strong and she got scared off...however she has started talking to me again and I can't quite work out what she is thinking. So it never got the point of us developing anything, but we will see if, I can sense that she is still interested in me.
But there is good news ;) I met up with another girl 2 weeks ago who I had previously met on holiday. When we met up she was shocked at how short my hair was, the last time she saw me (over a year and half ago) I still had a decent mop of hair. While we were drinking I mentioned to her very early in the night about my hair loss and asked her if it bothered her. She said that it's a perfectly normal thing to happen and that she really didn't care. She is a few years older than me and is very mature and down to earth, she also just spent this weekend at my place and much fun was had :D
So folks there is still hope out there!!! Girls that really don't give a damn about your hair loss. Go and find em!!! :cool: Like now!
HAHA, you made your ancestors proud ;)
02-19-2013 04:17 AM
Aames
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Originally Posted by Breaking Bald
Highlander there is really no need... :rolleyes:
Well folks I suppose I should update you all seeing as this thread has grown quite a bit. The original girl mentioned in this thread is kind of a complicated girl, to say the least...I came on too strong and she got scared off...however she has started talking to me again and I can't quite work out what she is thinking. So it never got the point of us developing anything, but we will see if, I can sense that she is still interested in me.
But there is good news ;) I met up with another girl 2 weeks ago who I had previously met on holiday. When we met up she was shocked at how short my hair was, the last time she saw me (over a year and half ago) I still had a decent mop of hair. While we were drinking I mentioned to her very early in the night about my hair loss and asked her if it bothered her. She said that it's a perfectly normal thing to happen and that she really didn't care. She is a few years older than me and is very mature and down to earth, she also just spent this weekend at my place and much fun was had :D
So folks there is still hope out there!!! Girls that really don't give a damn about your hair loss. Go and find em!!! :cool: Like now!
Great job ignoring all of the quality advice in this thread and coming off as a needy moron. May you be cursed with an eternal NW7.
02-19-2013 07:04 AM
Breaking Bald
I don't really give a shit about what you think Aames, did you not read my post correctly? You are a moron.
If you know that a person is mature enough and not just a superficial bitch then of course you can mention it early on. You have to rely on your intuition but I very much doubt you have any of that what so ever ;)
02-19-2013 10:12 AM
Aames
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Originally Posted by Breaking Bald
I don't really give a shit about what you think Aames, did you not read my post correctly? You are a moron.
If you know that a person is mature enough and not just a superficial bitch then of course you can mention it early on. You have to rely on your intuition but I very much doubt you have any of that what so ever ;)
Everyone is superficial, you must understand that. We are constantly being evaluated and judged. If you had any sense, you would treat your hair loss and hide all of the materials and drugs. I also clear my browser history after visiting hair loss sites and do not have my account info written down.
02-19-2013 10:20 AM
Breaking Bald
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Originally Posted by Aames
Everyone is superficial, you must understand that. We are constantly being evaluated and judged. If you had any sense, you would treat your hair loss and hide all of the materials and drugs. I also clear my browser history after visiting hair loss sites and do not have my account info written down.
To curse someone to become a NW7 even as a joke is not cool. What is the point in trying to hide something that is near impossible to hide?
Most people are superficial yes, but to varying degrees. And obliviously hair loss is not always an issue for some people. I am getting to the point where I don't even care if people know and that is much more healthy than being paranoid and trying to hide it. If you had any sense you would man up!
02-19-2013 10:23 AM
Aames
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Originally Posted by Breaking Bald
To curse someone to become a NW7 even as a joke is not cool. What is the point in trying to hide something that is near impossible to hide?
Most people are superficial yes, but to varying degrees. And obliviously hair loss does not always count for some people. I am getting to the point where I don't even care if people know and that is much more healthy than being paranoid and trying to hide it. Man up!
Lighten up, mate. If I could bestow you with a NW0, I would. I equate this situation with having cancer. There's no point in being one of those stupid hippies that doesn't treat it and allows it to kill them since it's "natural." You must fight! Acceptance is the final option, and even then, you're kinda just fooling yourself.
02-19-2013 11:45 AM
Kayman
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Originally Posted by Breaking Bald
To curse someone to become a NW7 even as a joke is not cool. What is the point in trying to hide something that is near impossible to hide?
Most people are superficial yes, but to varying degrees. And obliviously hair loss is not always an issue for some people. I am getting to the point where I don't even care if people know and that is much more healthy than being paranoid and trying to hide it. If you had any sense you would man up!
Well done mate, glad it's all worked out for you so far. Knock the complicated one on the head women who muck about are just a headache. Don't worry about Aames, anyone who equates hair loss to cancer is most likely beyond reprieve. Glad you're accepting who you are finally. I think that being upfront about your hair loss wouldn't have made you come across needy at all, and clearly there was a pay off, all of which has gone over Aames head.
02-19-2013 01:50 PM
Exodus
Yes, you're back! Glad common sense has returned!
02-19-2013 03:32 PM
BigThinker
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Originally Posted by exodus
yes, you're back! Glad common sense has returned!
+9000 .
02-19-2013 07:20 PM
tgajr
I gotta jump in here
Dont do anything about it. Bringing it up will make her aware of your insecurity on balding. And dont try to hide it either because then she will say "what else is he hiding".
You should cook for her. That will put her mind to work on what a cool dude you are. Chicks like guys that can cook.
Highlander there is really no need... :rolleyes:
