Destined to not respond?

Well, I don't know what to do really anymore. I am using fin (1yr 8months), but at the 1yr mark I went through a huge shed. Had scalp pain that turned into itching for 5months straight. It subsided but now I've been shedding 35-40 hairs in the shower and another 35-40 just letting my hair dry and brushing it with my fingers.

It seems I am actually going to be bald which scares me.. My hairline has an itch on and behind it that I can't stop and my scalp just feels pretty bad in general still. :confused:

I had to quit minoxidil in December because everything, even shampoos, were irritating my scalp. So the only other option I have is dutasteride, but I'm thinking hormonal changes in my body caused this to happen. Dutasteride would be an atom bomb to me..