Hair coming out easily when running my fingers through my hair
I've been paranoid of my hair ever since my mother pointed out that a my comb is full of hair and my fallen hair is clogging our shover drain. That was when I had fairly long hair (to my chin, now it's pretty short). I think it's worth noting that my hair is very thick and mildly wavy.
I have been running my fingers through my hair every now and then ever since just to check out how much hair is coming out. It's usually between 1-3 strands, but sometimes 4 or even 5. The thing is I can "pull" them out as long as I want. Once I got really frustrated and collected the hair that came off for some time. I could pile up a huge visible pile of hair, one that you can grab and feel. Sometimes there's also some hair on my pillow. After I wash my hair, I usually have a couple of fallen hair strands on my face and in my mouth. Note that I don't use any force when I run my fingers through my hair.
If it's true that the gene for baldness comes from mother's side, it's not very helpful since no men are alive and I don't even know what they looked like. Only some distant male relatives. I have two half-brothers who I share the same mother with. They are both over 30yo (I am 20yo btw) and they have perfect hair.
100 fallen hair strands per day is normal? Sounds a lot and that would make quite a pile. I don't see my friends having fallen hair on their desktops, caps, or bedding. I'm really anxious because my hair is all I have lookswise and I've always been proud of it. My forehead is fairly high so bald would look awful on me.
Please, tell me what you think and should I add some pictures here?
Edit: the hair that comes off has a small white dot in the end that is in my scalp. What is that and does it mean something?