So tired of Non-Sufferers telling me to "get over it", "Hair loss is nothin. Move on"

Seriously, no one knows the pain and suffering of hair loss,




ESPECIALLY AS A YOUNG NORWOOD 6 SLICK BALD like myself.....I FEEL THERE IS NO HOPE LEFT.


I am not good looking either, so it hurts.....


People laugh at me all the time and say I look 50.......



SPENCER KOBREN, THANK YOU FOR BEING THERE FOR US.

MAY THE UNIVERSE BLESS YOU WITH A GREAT GREAT LIFE......

It is not the hair that you have on your head that counts.. It is the hair that you have on your heart.. thank you

Try hanging with people that make fun of bald people when you're secretly on fin and minox - praying they'll work.

It's not easy at any age and that's why Spencer's show has helped me so much in my own life. Like he always says, there is life after hair loss, you just have to figure out how to live it. That can be easier said then done depending on your circumstances, but don't be like Joe for S.I.

Maybe start to focus on developing your physique and your career? It really does make a big difference especially as you get older. You'll begin to see that you earn people's respect and that includes women.

In my opinion and the opinion of many girls I know,

Balding only makes you look like a gross old guy if you keep the sides and back (the unaffected areas).

Just shave it all off with a blade. It's not as sexy as having a full head of hair but you still fit into a niche. The shaved head look is not the best look but it's still a look. A girl would rather sleep with a tough bad boy skinhead looking guy than a sad NW6 loser.

I workout at a Gold's Gym and I couldn't tell you how many jacked bodybuilders I've seen with shaved heads. Many bring their (hot) lady friends along to workout too. In fact, most bodybuilders I see there have no hair to be honest. Normally the bigger they are the less hair they have (not joking lol).

The caveat is they are swole. If you're an out of shape skinny-fat guy right now it would probably take you 5 years of consistent training and disciplined eating plans to look good enough to be bald.

I'm a NW2 and I'm putting in my training time early in case I ever have to go shiny.

Or save money, find a top surgeon and get a hair transplant.

I haven't said this enough: not all of us have the time, money and patience to become a huge stereotyped gym rat.

I'm a pale skinny NW5 and I don't shave my sides. Shaving them would only make me look like I have cancer. Even if I have a perfect head shape, I still think I shouldn't shave it all to the bone.

Becoming a steroid freak won't compensate for your bald head.

Get over it. Hair loss is nothing. Move on.









On a serious note, without restating what others have already said, work on improving what you can change. Physique, clothes, money, attitude are all stuff you can work on. And you don't need to look like a roided freak to be in good shape to impress.

Another thing that is annoying is when people suggest you shave your head and then mention all the famous people with shaved heads. Like any of us are going to look like: The Rock, Jason Statham, or Vin Diesel.

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Originally Posted by Vic12

I'm a NW2 and I'm putting in my training time early in case I ever have to go shiny.

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I'm doing the same.

Best case scenario: treatment saves my hair and I'm better of physically than I was before.

Worst case scenario: go NW7 and already got a head start on a career and gains.

"Get over it" is the worst MPB advice ever. Usually it is not even genuine advice, just some joker trying to put on a facade like he would be "manly" and shave his head if it happened to him. Or else it is some bald guy who looked ridiculous with hair anyway & had nothing to lose by going NW6-7.