But its not all about what women like in men. It has a huge personal factor to it. Feeling attractive doesn't always mean to the opposite sex.
I appreciate the points that you and Layla are bringing here. Its nice of you guys, but alot us are hurting with the hairloss, and we come here hoping to see other people that can relate to this stuff, on a personal level.
What you are saying is probably true, but first we have to get to a point where what you said actually matters. We have to first deal with it on a personal level. Thats freakin hard man! I use to actually feel good about myself, and all that I have achieved, but this hairloss is crippling the self esteem, its hard to deal with it, and people do not seem to understand that. Its really not all about what women want.
I know you guys mean well, and I think its great that you post here with advice from a different point of view. But sometime its a little frustrating when this issue is turned into, what women kind of a thing. Its the last thing on my mind right now, I have a long way to go before I can bother with that stuff, and I think that goes for a few other people here aswell.
Khan,
Your feelings are empathized by many here, you’re certainly in good company. It was so rough for me when hair loss started and like you have said a room full of guys or girls it made no difference. I felt awkward in my own skin, sensitive, tried avoiding bright lighting, avoided water on my hair, and immediately stopped using Gel, the whole nine yards. My hair loss stopped abruptly the day I quite ejaculating everyday some don’t believe that but I am sure of it. On top of this I was diagnosed at 23 years old with Testicular Cancer and had my left testicle taken out. For the first time in years I didn’t care whether or not my hair loss would get worse all I thought about was survival. Sense then I have conquered my insecurities and fought back without looking back. I spend most my time researching behavior induced cancers but hold steadfast to my beliefs that hair loss is accelerated by multiply behaviors that a modernized world encourages. More so, there are so many contributing factors now that most people attack 1,2 , or 3 and gain little ground. Attack hair loss in every way possible because it sucks, but don’t forget with every breath you take my friend you are blessed and more importantly you are beautiful. The day you let go of the desire to keep your hair is the day it will turn around for you and that’s why If there is a God out there I thank that God for giving me Cancer.
08-10-2012 12:39 PM
dex89
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Khan,
My hair loss stopped abruptly the day I quite ejaculating everyday some don’t believe that but I am sure of it. .
So your saying that masturbating and having sex caused you hairloss?
08-10-2012 12:51 PM
beatinghairloss
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So your saying that masturbating and having sex caused you hairloss?
100% for sure that it was causeing my hairloss and 100% sure that reducing down to once every few weeks stopped it.
08-10-2012 12:59 PM
dex89
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Originally Posted by beatinghairloss
100% for sure that it was causeing my hairloss and 100% sure that reducing down to once every few weeks stopped it.
Then I'm 100% sure that I'm not going to touch my penis and delete all my porn. Final question: Do you still have sex, if you do how many times a week?
08-10-2012 01:34 PM
Tracy C
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Originally Posted by beatinghairloss
100% for sure that it was causeing my hairloss and 100% sure that reducing down to once every few weeks stopped it.
Then I am 200% sure that you never had hereditary hair loss to start with.
08-10-2012 02:26 PM
yeahyeahyeah
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Originally Posted by dex89
Then I'm 100% sure that I'm not going to touch my penis and delete all my porn. Final question: Do you still have sex, if you do how many times a week?
Stupid - if this was the case then we would all bald at the same rate. I take it that Rooney is a chronic wanker.
08-10-2012 02:28 PM
whynot
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Originally Posted by Layla
lol highlander, it isn't your looks that hold you back. It's your shitty attitude!
Layla, you're a ****ing ANGEL.
08-10-2012 02:33 PM
beatinghairloss
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Originally Posted by dex89
Then I'm 100% sure that I'm not going to touch my penis and delete all my porn. Final question: Do you still have sex, if you do how many times a week?
I do the real thing. I quite masturbating as I have convinced myself that it increased circulating levels of DHT so that made it much easier. I stopped watching porn because its next to impossible not to ejaculate with all those thoughts running through you head. I do it about once ever 2 weeks some times 1 per week.
08-10-2012 02:37 PM
beatinghairloss
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Originally Posted by yeahyeahyeah
Stupid - if this was the case then we would all bald at the same rate. I take it that Rooney is a chronic wanker.
People do not all start ejaculating at the same age or at the same rate. The amount you do controls how quickly your prostate grows along with genetic makeup. Once the prostate is large enough (any time after around 20 for most but as early as 16 and late as 40) it will produce high enough DHT levels to cause hair loss. The key is at age 12 your prostate begins a rapid growth the fact is you can increase that rate by ejaculating often. The balding itself still is not possible without pressure on the Galea and due to different head shapes and muscles in the head causing various types of tension people bald at different rates and patterns.
08-10-2012 02:37 PM
dex89
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Originally Posted by beatinghairloss
. I do it about once ever 2 weeks some times 1 per week.
Dam, this is going to be difficult, from having sex 3 times a day to once a week is going to be a challenge. The gf is going to be pretty upset lol.
