I hate how superficial the world is becoming. The only thing that seems to matter anymore is how you look. There's this douchebag at my school, every girl knows he's good looking. That's all he has. I'm in most of the activities he's in, and I'm definitely better than him at all of them. He's rude, he's boring, he's pretty dumb, he lacks self-confidence in front of groups. He's never maintained a relationship longer than a month.
Girls are all over him.
I'm one of the most intelligent kids in my school.
I play an instrument at the All-State level.
I'm 6 feet tall.
I'm an Eagle Scout.
I work as a lifeguard during the summer.
I'm a 2 sport athlete and decent enough at both sports.
I have a great body.
Personality-wise, I'm somewhat reserved, but I can make people laugh.
I dress well, running the board between jeans and a leather jacket and a cotton button-down.
I practice good hygiene, shave every day (my head included), shower, all that.
I have friends and people tell me they like me. I'm definitely not a social pariah.
I have 2 full-ride scholarships to decent universities out of my state.
Girls talk to me, but unless they're ugly, they never want anything more.
I have literally everything I could ever want, except good looks. Health, intelligence, height, personality, middle-income parents with a huge bank account that I'll probably inherit-everything.
Except girls. I'm just not attractive enough.
I feel even worse because I employ the same bias: I only focus on the pretty girls!
I feel so bad about it, since I know exactly what it feels like to be marginalized because of an ugly face, but I do it anyway. I don't want to have ugly kids who will have to deal with the same insecurities that I have.
I imagine that I'll do better later in life, as I'm very intelligent and a hard worker. I'll just have to make enough money to compensate for my looks.
I go onto a lot of forums and the guys are all asking, "Why do women only care about money?"
Well, shit, I hope that's true. When it comes time to marry, I hope that women do care about money. I hope they care a lot.
02-26-2013 05:32 PM
Aeroes
welcome to reality.
Women don't only care about money..Your going for the wrong ones. Women want secruity..money = secruity. If you can provide for a women and satisfy her needs that's all she wants.
The perfect man for a women ejeculates chocolate and shits money..but thats a perfect world isn't it.
All women are crazy. I'm lucky i've found a very attractive talents partner, though there's issues in every relationships. Your going for the wrong girls.
02-26-2013 05:55 PM
TheLaughingCow
The "wrong" girls are the ones that have their numbers on the bathroom walls.
The "wrong" girls are the ones that don't ever talk to me until their homework is due the next class and then ask me to "do them a favor".
The "wrong" girls are the ones who can't remember what went down the night before, even though today is a Wednesday.
I'm not going for the wrong girls.
02-26-2013 06:10 PM
Aeroes
Quote:
Originally Posted by TheLaughingCow
The "wrong" girls are the ones that have their numbers on the bathroom walls.
The "wrong" girls are the ones that don't ever talk to me until their homework is due the next class and then ask me to "do them a favor".
The "wrong" girls are the ones who can't remember what went down the night before, even though today is a Wednesday.
I'm not going for the wrong girls.
The thing is though both male and females go for looks..it's just instinct look for the strongest most attractive mate to breed with. If your looks are an issue/not appealing over others, if you don't initiate a conversation you'll never know.
Women love talking about themselves. Seriously Who,What,Where,Why,How. You cannot lose unless your trying to bat way above average..even then what women do you want to attract to satisfy you..
02-26-2013 06:45 PM
BigThinker
Guys care about looks just like girls do. You wouldn't date some Quasimodo looking chick.
No reason to generalize and blame them because you're frustrated. You just need to modify your own mentality (in addition to physical attributes) to maximize your presentation. Just act indifferent up until you've got them super interested, then let your guard down a pinch.. just a pinch. You'll know when to let it down further.
And if anyone thinks money doesn't matter, they're crazy. I'm not saying you need to be in the top 1%, but you need to be living comfortably and be able to offer the same to her and the children you could prospectively have some day.
Honestly, most dudes' problems on this site go way beyond hair. A decent face, nice body, and a fat bank account will make a chick 25+ wetter than any NW-1 Goldilocks. And you need to not be a totally self-deprecating, needy, manic whiner - girls aren't exactly crazy about that type of weakness either.
02-26-2013 07:21 PM
Aeroes
Quote:
Originally Posted by BigThinker
Guys care about looks just like girls do. You wouldn't date some Quasimodo looking chick.
No reason to generalize and blame them because you're frustrated. You just need to modify your own mentality (in addition to physical attributes) to maximize your presentation. Just act indifferent up until you've got them super interested, then let your guard down a pinch.. just a pinch. You'll know when to let it down further.
And if anyone thinks money doesn't matter, they're crazy. I'm not saying you need to be in the top 1%, but you need to be living comfortably and be able to offer the same to her and the children you could prospectively have some day.
Honestly, most dudes' problems on this site go way beyond hair. A decent face, nice body, and a fat bank account will make a chick 25+ wetter than any NW-1 Goldilocks. And you need to not be a totally self-deprecating, needy, manic whiner - girls aren't exactly crazy about that type of weakness either.
Something I agree on ;)
02-27-2013 12:49 PM
Exodus
Quote:
Originally Posted by BigThinker
Guys care about looks just like girls do. You wouldn't date some Quasimodo looking chick.
No reason to generalize and blame them because you're frustrated. You just need to modify your own mentality (in addition to physical attributes) to maximize your presentation. Just act indifferent up until you've got them super interested, then let your guard down a pinch.. just a pinch. You'll know when to let it down further.
And if anyone thinks money doesn't matter, they're crazy. I'm not saying you need to be in the top 1%, but you need to be living comfortably and be able to offer the same to her and the children you could prospectively have some day.
Honestly, most dudes' problems on this site go way beyond hair. A decent face, nice body, and a fat bank account will make a chick 25+ wetter than any NW-1 Goldilocks. And you need to not be a totally self-deprecating, needy, manic whiner - girls aren't exactly crazy about that type of weakness either.
Dis guy knowz iz s***
Anyway Ill stop talking like a black man. The point is he's true, I mean OP, you're in School (I presume you're American), it's all superficial there anyway. In the real world as Big T says, other factors come into play, money, security, stability.
I've seen fat balding guys with reasonable good looking girls and I've seen fit, confident bald men with hot looking girls. I know he's an overused example, but Statham has Huntington-Whitely. Bald yes, good looking, subjective to opinions, BUT he has cash and security (which covers a wide range of things) and just works the shit out.
Bottom line is, there is more then just whats on your mind and in life you will see that come into play. Looks help, but they're not the game changer.
02-27-2013 12:50 PM
Exodus
Quote:
Originally Posted by TheLaughingCow
I hate how superficial the world is becoming. The only thing that seems to matter anymore is how you look. There's this douchebag at my school, every girl knows he's good looking. That's all he has. I'm in most of the activities he's in, and I'm definitely better than him at all of them. He's rude, he's boring, he's pretty dumb, he lacks self-confidence in front of groups. He's never maintained a relationship longer than a month.
Girls are all over him.
I'm one of the most intelligent kids in my school.
I play an instrument at the All-State level.
I'm 6 feet tall.
I'm an Eagle Scout.
I work as a lifeguard during the summer.
I'm a 2 sport athlete and decent enough at both sports.
I have a great body.
Personality-wise, I'm somewhat reserved, but I can make people laugh.
I dress well, running the board between jeans and a leather jacket and a cotton button-down.
I practice good hygiene, shave every day (my head included), shower, all that.
I have friends and people tell me they like me. I'm definitely not a social pariah.
I have 2 full-ride scholarships to decent universities out of my state.
Girls talk to me, but unless they're ugly, they never want anything more.
I have literally everything I could ever want, except good looks. Health, intelligence, height, personality, middle-income parents with a huge bank account that I'll probably inherit-everything.
Except girls. I'm just not attractive enough.
I feel even worse because I employ the same bias: I only focus on the pretty girls!
I feel so bad about it, since I know exactly what it feels like to be marginalized because of an ugly face, but I do it anyway. I don't want to have ugly kids who will have to deal with the same insecurities that I have.
I imagine that I'll do better later in life, as I'm very intelligent and a hard worker. I'll just have to make enough money to compensate for my looks.
I go onto a lot of forums and the guys are all asking, "Why do women only care about money?"
Well, shit, I hope that's true. When it comes time to marry, I hope that women do care about money. I hope they care a lot.
I think you and Highlander will get on just fantastic.
02-27-2013 01:09 PM
baldy1990
no they are not,this guy does anything he can do,he cares about his ugliness but this doesnt stop him to work or try things.He has many activites
02-27-2013 01:40 PM
dex89
This is the reason why I don't wan't to be fully bald. Try lowering your standards and wear tight clothing mate. You said that your physical fit, try showing off those guns. What's your NW and age?
02-27-2013 01:51 PM
Kayman
Quote:
Originally Posted by Exodus
I think you and Highlander will get on just fantastic.
I think that the two of them have a lot in common.
02-27-2013 03:10 PM
baldozer
Quote:
Originally Posted by TheLaughingCow
I hate how superficial the world is becoming. The only thing that seems to matter anymore is how you look. There's this douchebag at my school, every girl knows he's good looking. That's all he has. I'm in most of the activities he's in, and I'm definitely better than him at all of them. He's rude, he's boring, he's pretty dumb, he lacks self-confidence in front of groups. He's never maintained a relationship longer than a month.
Girls are all over him.
I'm one of the most intelligent kids in my school.
I play an instrument at the All-State level.
I'm 6 feet tall.
I'm an Eagle Scout.
I work as a lifeguard during the summer.
I'm a 2 sport athlete and decent enough at both sports.
I have a great body.
Personality-wise, I'm somewhat reserved, but I can make people laugh.
I dress well, running the board between jeans and a leather jacket and a cotton button-down.
I practice good hygiene, shave every day (my head included), shower, all that.
I have friends and people tell me they like me. I'm definitely not a social pariah.
I have 2 full-ride scholarships to decent universities out of my state.
Girls talk to me, but unless they're ugly, they never want anything more.
I have literally everything I could ever want, except good looks. Health, intelligence, height, personality, middle-income parents with a huge bank account that I'll probably inherit-everything.
Except girls. I'm just not attractive enough.
I feel even worse because I employ the same bias: I only focus on the pretty girls!
I feel so bad about it, since I know exactly what it feels like to be marginalized because of an ugly face, but I do it anyway. I don't want to have ugly kids who will have to deal with the same insecurities that I have.
I imagine that I'll do better later in life, as I'm very intelligent and a hard worker. I'll just have to make enough money to compensate for my looks.
I go onto a lot of forums and the guys are all asking, "Why do women only care about money?"
Well, shit, I hope that's true. When it comes time to marry, I hope that women do care about money. I hope they care a lot.
What is wrong with your looks. Why you think you are ugly. Just due to hairloss or something else too? I tell you what, when you will be rich one day, which I hope you will, you will be the one rejecting girls.
The other day, I was seeing a funny video on youtube, where a man was constantly being rejected for being poor, then he suddenly became a millionaire by winning "Who wants to be a millionaire". The host asks him, who will you marry and he said, "I don't know who will I marry but I definitely know who I will not marry"! :D
02-27-2013 03:25 PM
Aames
Do something about it then. Life has dealt you shit genetics and now you must deal with them or die.
So you're in high school? Do you go to parties? That and sports (and girls, lol) were the best parts of hs.
You'll be fine. Once you get to college things will get easier. Just remember, as a man gets older his stock goes up. As a woman gets older her stock goes down. A single man at 30 (hell even 25) and above with his shit together holds the cards. You can date younger, you can date older. A single woman's stock plummets once she hits 30, hot or not.
If you think about it men are much more shallow when it comes to looks. A man with below average looks who is moderately successful can still pull a decent looking chick. A woman with below average looks is basically screwed. Even really successful women typically can't attract a good looking guy.
In regards to marriage, I hate to be a debbie-downer but forty to sixty percent of marriages will end in divorce and women initiate divorce over 80% of the time. Be careful out there.
03-02-2013 09:03 AM
lalala
Quote:
Originally Posted by Highlander
You know your problem? You're a self-entitled, whiney little bitch.
You're ugly but you will only consider hot women? I take back what I just wrote. You're deluded.
What about the ugly girl saying what you're saying?
And frankly, why SHOULD an attractive girl consider an ugly boy? Just as personality is important, there's also a great feeling when you're holding hands with and having fun with an attractive partner. You want one thing for yourself, and something completely different for them.
Well guess what: welcome to the ****in' real world. Enjoy your stay. It's unfair. It's not fun. And just about everything is determined by birth.
Your whole post came off as pathetic. Why are you criticising this kid because he's attractive and lacks self-confidence?? You're calling him dumb and worthless, yet he probably only comes off that way BECAUSE he isn't self-confident. And here you are judging him like that. It's pathetic.
Don't worry about other people. Run your own bloody race. Do you want to criticise everyone doing better than you? Do you want to hold them back? Do you want to bring them down? Based on your post you probably think wealth redistribution is a good thing, huh?
How about instead of being so negative you actually work on improving what you can? Step one would be not hating people you envy.
Bravo!!! Highlander may be back! Very well said.
03-02-2013 12:16 PM
Aeroes
Quote:
Originally Posted by Highlander
You know your problem? You're a self-entitled, whiney little bitch.
You're ugly but you will only consider hot women? I take back what I just wrote. You're deluded.
What about the ugly girl saying what you're saying?
And frankly, why SHOULD an attractive girl consider an ugly boy? Just as personality is important, there's also a great feeling when you're holding hands with and having fun with an attractive partner. You want one thing for yourself, and something completely different for them.
Well guess what: welcome to the ****in' real world. Enjoy your stay. It's unfair. It's not fun. And just about everything is determined by birth.
Your whole post came off as pathetic. Why are you criticising this kid because he's attractive and lacks self-confidence?? You're calling him dumb and worthless, yet he probably only comes off that way BECAUSE he isn't self-confident. And here you are judging him like that. It's pathetic.
Don't worry about other people. Run your own bloody race. Do you want to criticise everyone doing better than you? Do you want to hold them back? Do you want to bring them down? Based on your post you probably think wealth redistribution is a good thing, huh?
How about instead of being so negative you actually work on improving what you can? Step one would be not hating people you envy.
Do you have Bipolar?
03-02-2013 12:56 PM
Assemblage23
It sure is funny how a lot of men complain about women being shallow yet don't seem any different themselves. They complain about how they are invisible to hot girls and at the same time they probably don't notice the other girls themselves.
03-02-2013 03:22 PM
baldozer
Quote:
Originally Posted by Assemblage23
It sure is funny how a lot of men complain about women being shallow yet don't seem any different themselves. They complain about how they are invisible to hot girls and at the same time they probably don't notice the other girls themselves.
But men find most young women atrractive while women find very few men attractive. Most men wouldnt mind having sex with a girl with receding chin, but women will avoid that kind of man like plague.
03-02-2013 04:26 PM
akai
Would you rather be horseshoe bald or have a receding chin?
03-02-2013 11:34 PM
baldozer
Quote:
Originally Posted by akai
Would you rather be horseshoe bald or have a receding chin?
Well men wouldn't even mind having sex with a bald woman. Some would just put a beanie hat or wig over her head, LOL!
03-03-2013 02:17 PM
TheLaughingCow
so much hate...
I have gotten some hate for this post. +cough+Highlander+cough. Did you even read it? I said specifically in the first post that I hate how looks matter to other people and to me.
Let me restate this.
I wish I could be happy with a less attractive girl.
It bothers me that I seek only looks in other women and it bothers me that women are an awful lot like me in that regard.
This isn't a misogynistic rant. It's a rant against society, where your success is determined by your face.
03-03-2013 02:25 PM
TheLaughingCow
Quote:
Originally Posted by dex89
This is the reason why I don't wan't to be fully bald. Try lowering your standards and wear tight clothing mate. You said that your physical fit, try showing off those guns. What's your NW and age?
I'm 18 and I think a NW3 (shaved). I actually do wear reasonably fitted clothes, I've been more into fashion lately since I'll be entering college soon and I want to make a good impression. My shirts are all fitted, as that's the only way I can wear them.
03-04-2013 11:42 AM
Exodus
Highlander, would you like a mirror for your birthday?
03-04-2013 03:59 PM
Aames
Quote:
Originally Posted by Highlander
So I don't get the issue then. You are shallow. Society is shallow. You are ugly. They are hot.
We all know how this ends. You either realise that porn has skewed your perceptions of what you find attractive and find a 6/10 to date and marry. Or you remain stalwart in finding this 10/10 who loves you for your bitter personality and NW3 and stay forever alone and depressed.
I'm sorry to put it like this, but nobody said this was going to be easy.
