So tired of Non-Sufferers telling me to "get over it", "Hair loss is nothin. Move on"

[Dfaru94]

In response to the OP, it's annoying as f*ck.

I heard a 50-something man last week, who still has a full head of hair, say "ewww I'd rather just go bald! *scoff*" when hearing about integrated hair systems. He didn't say it to or about me, since I'm not immediately obviously balding yet.

But I was just thinking "lol, no, no you wouldn't, trust me".

It's easy to say that when you're, really, anything over 25 years old and you're still pretty thick up top. You'll never know the feeling of being in school or university, and being the only person in the room your age who is visibly balding. That's not even an experience I can claim really, since I can still easily mask my thinning somewhat at 22 (and will probably be able to for a while yet with the help of Finasteride).

[tedwuji]

None of this is to say looks are not important.

They are important.

I am simply stating that it is a multifaceted scenario with many complex variables.

With men its a bit more straightforward with the high-value on appearance thing, at least for me, lawl.

If women dont look good it is gameover.

[tedwuji]

Ok, braw. You do realise western civilisation wasn't built on the appearance based society of the last 50 years. Women going after powerful men is completely natural as they have good proven genes. But your worldview is facked so why am I even bothering.

Lets think about this from a Darwinian perspective... if throughout evolution women were selecting men on appearance alone with no consideration for ability to protect or provide for her, how long would they last in a pre-society historical scenario? Come on man, women dont just choose the "prettiest guy".

Gotta agree with dus.

[dus]

Glorified prostitutes, these women do not love these ugly powerful men, and they will f-ck better-looking guys on the side.

Ok, braw. You do realise western civilisation wasn't built on the appearance based society of the last 50 years. Women going after powerful men is completely natural as they have good proven genes. But your worldview is facked so why am I even bothering.

[fred970]

I take it you are not a history buff. Start with Henry Kissinger. Or something more recent, president Hollande of France: probably the most goofy balding powerful guy on the international stage today who has a hot mistress. IT guys are not really powerful, they just operate within the system that the guys with guns control.

Glorified prostitutes, these women do not love these ugly powerful men, and they will f-ck better-looking guys on the side.

[dus]

Evidence of that? None.

Power turns women into glorified prostitutes who pinch their nose while f-cking you so they can take advantage of your ressources.

Sorry to burst your bubble.

I take it you are not a history buff. Start with Henry Kissinger. Or something more recent, president Hollande of France: probably the most goofy balding powerful guy on the international stage today who has a hot mistress. IT guys are not really powerful, they just operate within the system that the guys with guns control.

[fred970]

Have you ever seen a hot girl with a nerdy Bill Gates guy.... or worse?

How often do you see Male models with fat chicks tho?

This is Bill Gates' wife:



This is Mark Zuckerberg's wife:



Whoah, clearly, being one of the richest and most powerful guy in the world will make hot girls fall in love with you.

This is the poor guy's wet dream. The truth is, couples are looksmatched, true couples, you know, where the girl truly loves the guy, and is not with him just for his money.

Again, sorry to burst your bubble too. Women are not hardwired differently. They don't forego looks. They just marry a rich ugly guy while f-cking the hot blue-collar pool-boy on the side.

[fred970]

Power makes women wet as ****.

Evidence of that? None.

Power turns women into glorified prostitutes who pinch their nose while f-cking you so they can take advantage of your ressources.

Sorry to burst your bubble.

[dus]

Only looks matter when it comes to sexual attraction.

Power, intelligence and wealth don't make women wet.

Power makes women wet as ****.

[tedwuji]

Only looks matter when it comes to sexual attraction.

Power, intelligence and wealth don't make women wet.

Have you ever seen a hot girl with a nerdy Bill Gates guy.... or worse?

How often do you see Male models with fat chicks tho?

Point: Women and Men are hardwired differently. Women can forgo good looks (to an extent) more than men can for other qualities. You can see that outside in daily life, baseball game, shopping mall, etc.

Sigmund Freud: "Men value women for their appearances, women value men for their character" ~something like off top of my head

[fred970]

How old are you? On a positive note, if you aren't good looking anyways then it probably does matter less.

i mean to say you would have probably had to use other attributes to get women rather than looks even had you not gone bald. Power, Intelligence, Wealth, etc.

Only looks matter when it comes to sexual attraction.

Power, intelligence and wealth don't make women wet.

[tedwuji]

Seriously, no one knows the pain and suffering of hair loss,




ESPECIALLY AS A YOUNG NORWOOD 6 SLICK BALD like myself.....I FEEL THERE IS NO HOPE LEFT.


I am not good looking either, so it hurts.....


People laugh at me all the time and say I look 50.......



SPENCER KOBREN, THANK YOU FOR BEING THERE FOR US.

MAY THE UNIVERSE BLESS YOU WITH A GREAT GREAT LIFE......

How old are you? On a positive note, if you aren't good looking anyways then it probably does matter less.

i mean to say you would have probably had to use other attributes to get women rather than looks even had you not gone bald. Power, Intelligence, Wealth, etc.

[yeahyeahyeah]

Before you use his facial aesthetics as an excuse, the guy is only slightly above average. If it's really a problem you can always get some plastic surgery, like for the jaw or chin.

I have had a lot of work done on my jaw, due to a deformed bite. It really is not a procedure to take lightly. I personally spent a good 4 months losing a lot of weight, on a liquid diet with a further 6 months trying to rebuild my stamina at the gym. Even after it is done, there is a chance you may suffer from relapse (i.e. jaw goes back to old position) that happened to me.

[greatjob!]

Before you use his facial aesthetics as an excuse, the guy is only slightly above average.

You're drunk...

Yeah this guys looks like the majority of people I see every day:



This guy has literally perfect facial symmetry. He is the guy Michelangelo was referring to.

[capitan]

Doors this guy have it done? He's a bad example if not.
This has more cosmetic risks than a transplant. Eventually you will lose all the fuzz on top and if will just be weird smooth dots

No, he has just stated that he shaves his head in the morning.

I would just like to recreate this look, and a hair line similar to his.

All the examples I see done look just as well.

As for the smoothness, I think that would go unnoticed and a small price to pay.

Maybe you are more accepting of have a fleshy dome but I never will be.