A parallel for hair loss: Why women hate bald men

[dda]

Originally Posted by Highlander

Tell me, are you tall, ripped, aesthetic?

I don't mean any offence, but it's clear you aren't. If you were you would know that women really are all sloots. I hate to generalise, but this just is how it is. Now it does change as you get older, but while you're below thirty being "hot" means you will date and **** any girl that you want (not that I do those things since I'm not a marxist phaggot).

Exactly.

Let me tell you real quick that hair and other good features DOES matter and give you a good explanation. I'll start out by saying that having a gap between my teeth during highschool, and not getting invisilne until 3 months before I graduated, completely ruined my high school social life with the ladies. I'm not an outgoing person to begin with, so having ****ed up teeth destroyed any confidence I had going into a big highschool. Then I finally got invisiline 3 months before I graduated, and for the first time in HS a girl flirted with me and ended up getting with her.

From that time I fixed my teeth to about the end of my sophmore year in college were my golden years. I was talking to girls and hooking up with girls I would have never been able to with messed up teeth and a balding head. Girls were noticing me at parties and I would catch them checking me out. I only got like 0ne or two comments during this time about my thinning head from behind, one being from my brother. So it was not extremely noticable at that point and I was able to live a ****ing life. Well after that year of college my loss must have sped up(working out alot and using creatine, and the everyday stresses of a college workload didn't help) but when I ran my hands through my hair like 5-6 hairs would fall out. I would get the usual "yo baldie" or "damn you're balding that sucks" from my fraternity brothers at school. My confidence was SHOT. I'd even hear it from people that i worked with at my shitty close to minimum wage job during school. (killed me even more) This was all pretty much during the end of my college career. I had a girlfriend at that point who was a freshman and found out that one day her and her friends were all together, and one of her friends asked her which one was her boyfriend. two of the group chimed in and said "O he's the one that's balding." Yup, my heart sank at that moment. I ended the relationship a little while after, not because of that, but for other reasons.

But when I look back on it, It was probably better that I ended it. look at it this way. Imagine if you dated an overweight girl and is not too goodlooking, and you are in a group with your boys and someone asks you, "who's your girl?" And then someone blurts out, "yea shes the one thats fat and disgusting." Imagine how you would feel after that. Yea, you may like her or love her or whatever, but theres no respect from anybody for your decision. My ex was probably mortified when she heard that.

Now at 23, I'd say I'm a NW3 with diffuse and thin hair at vertex. This has shattered any confidence I had around women, and I know they can certainly sense my fear. The only time I am confident is when I'm drunk and high off my ass, and even then I can feel a sense of depression. So yea, having hair DOES matter in your 20's. I could have a girl right now who is somewhat attractive but with many mental issues. I don't want that though, you know? I want to be like the majority of other 20 somehting year old dudes who can go out and talk to girls with no hesitation and play the field and not be stuck to a certain set of girls. If I had my hair, my confidence would come back and I would have no problems in life. Instead, I now do have plenty of problems.

Sorry for that wall of text.

[Maradona]

Originally Posted by dda

Exactly.

Let me tell you real quick that hair and other good features DOES matter and give you a good explanation. I'll start out by saying that having a gap between my teeth during highschool, and not getting invisilne until 3 months before I graduated, completely ruined my high school social life with the ladies. I'm not an outgoing person to begin with, so having ****ed up teeth destroyed any confidence I had going into a big highschool. Then I finally got invisiline 3 months before I graduated, and for the first time in HS a girl flirted with me and ended up getting with her.

From that time I fixed my teeth to about the end of my sophmore year in college were my golden years. I was talking to girls and hooking up with girls I would have never been able to with messed up teeth and a balding head. Girls were noticing me at parties and I would catch them checking me out. I only got like 0ne or two comments during this time about my thinning head from behind, one being from my brother. So it was not extremely noticable at that point and I was able to live a ****ing life. Well after that year of college my loss must have sped up(working out alot and using creatine, and the everyday stresses of a college workload didn't help) but when I ran my hands through my hair like 5-6 hairs would fall out. I would get the usual "yo baldie" or "damn you're balding that sucks" from my fraternity brothers at school. My confidence was SHOT. I'd even hear it from people that i worked with at my shitty close to minimum wage job during school. (killed me even more) This was all pretty much during the end of my college career. I had a girlfriend at that point who was a freshman and found out that one day her and her friends were all together, and one of her friends asked her which one was her boyfriend. two of the group chimed in and said "O he's the one that's balding." Yup, my heart sank at that moment. I ended the relationship a little while after, not because of that, but for other reasons.

But when I look back on it, It was probably better that I ended it. look at it this way. Imagine if you dated an overweight girl and is not too goodlooking, and you are in a group with your boys and someone asks you, "who's your girl?" And then someone blurts out, "yea shes the one thats fat and disgusting." Imagine how you would feel after that. Yea, you may like her or love her or whatever, but theres no respect from anybody for your decision. My ex was probably mortified when she heard that.

Now at 23, I'd say I'm a NW3 with diffuse and thin hair at vertex. This has shattered any confidence I had around women, and I know they can certainly sense my fear. The only time I am confident is when I'm drunk and high off my ass, and even then I can feel a sense of depression. So yea, having hair DOES matter in your 20's. I could have a girl right now who is somewhat attractive but with many mental issues. I don't want that though, you know? I want to be like the majority of other 20 somehting year old dudes who can go out and talk to girls with no hesitation and play the field and not be stuck to a certain set of girls. If I had my hair, my confidence would come back and I would have no problems in life. Instead, I now do have plenty of problems.

Sorry for that wall of text.

I think confidence and making a woman laugh can work wonders. But having good looks just makes it a lot easier !!

[dda]

O yea and let me add that I don't necessarily have the personality of THAT guy who can gain the notice of women no matter what he looks like. I counted on my looks to get past my somewhat anti social personality. So now that that will be gone probably before I'm thirty, unless rogaine(currently on) and fin(will be on in near future) work wonders for me, any successful social life I had hoped and enjoying the best years of my life will be up in smoke.

[ProudBaldie]

Originally Posted by Highlander

Some of you are still in denial that life is worth living after NW3, so let me clear things up for you a bit.

Imagine that women of all cup-sizes were sometimes prone to a disease which caused a rapidly accelerated sagging of the breasts. And that for some women, even by the age of 25 or 30 they would have the same sagginess as a grandmother of 90.

Now imagine that you could identify which women did or did not have this disease. That you could effectively avoid dating and marrying a women who were prone to this. Are you telling me you would still be ok marrying a woman, knowing that by 30 years of age her appearance would be totally altered and she would be rendered physically unattractive?

But there are breast lifts I hear you say! Sure, but just like HT's they only work to a point. Heck, she could even work out and develop amazing legs. But the best legs in the world won't change her saggy breasts.

Sorry gentlemen, but you know I'm right. Why do we even bother living? The Government should put a no-child policy down for balding men. It should be against the law to spread inferior and defective genes.

So you treat and judge women by their boobs?What about personality and chemistry man. no wonder u cant get women..you dont deserve one.

[Highlander]

Originally Posted by ProudBaldie

So you treat and judge women by their boobs?What about personality and chemistry man. no wonder u cant get women..you dont deserve one.

Who said I "can't get women'?

And yes, I do judge women by their breasts. I judge women based on their physical attractiveness just like you and any other male here does. That is why I would consider my hypothetical example to be a good one.

[bigentries]

Originally Posted by Highlander

Who said I "can't get women'?

And yes, I do judge women by their breasts. I judge women based on their physical attractiveness just like you and any other male here does. That is why I would consider my hypothetical example to be a good one.

Everyone judges people by how they look... to a certain degree

Both extremes of the spectrum are difficult to find, unlike some bald people think, and require a psychological evaluation.

If you think you might be one of them, I would advice you to see a doctor

[Highlander]

Originally Posted by bigentries

Everyone judges people by how they look... to a certain degree

Both extremes of the spectrum are difficult to find, unlike some bald people think, and require a psychological evaluation.

If you think you might be one of them, I would advice you to see a doctor

Ever wondered why women in general have no sense of humour? It's evolutionary and incredible simple to understand.

All a woman needs to be is be attractive to a male and she has done 95% of the work. Whereas a man has far more than looks to worry about, which is why having sense of humour and what not have an evolutionary benefit.

I suggest you read a good article by Christopher Hitchens published in Vanity Fair on the subject.

>And before you try doing another one-in-a-million I know a funny women, here is a funny comedian, I don't care. They're as valid as the bald fat guy getting a hot wife. Statistical outlyers that in no way undermine my point.

[blowmeup]

You’re such a pathetic excuse for a man! You talk about weakness, you are the weakest person I have ever had the displeasure on running into in my life. You exhibit man’s most pathetic, traits and this has nothing to do with your weak chin and reseeding hairline.

[ProudBaldie]

Originally Posted by blowmeup

You’re such a pathetic excuse for a man! You talk about weakness, you are the weakest person I have ever had the displeasure on running into in my life. You exhibit man’s most pathetic, traits and this has nothing to do with your weak chin and reseeding hairline.

i coudn't word it better myself. i agree.. im starting to think that highlander is just trolling. If he's not, then he's by far the worst excuse of a man . You can be perfect physically but with your pathetic attitude.. youd still be unhappy. Im sorry highlander but no amount of surgery will fix your problem. You cant even accept yourself troll.

[VictimOfDHT]

Bravo guys (proudbaldie and blowmeup). The only pathetic ones here are YOU TWO. What's it with you sick people that make you attack people for stating their opinion? Why do you have to be like the rest of the other sick people and attack people for HAVING DIFFERENT OPINIONS ABOUT WHATEVER THE FU.CK IT IS??????? Again, you two are just vying for validation. THAT'S FU.CKING ALL. I'm sick and tired of this sick attitude that you and others like you have. Learn to be MORE understanding of others' feelings no matter how "negative" they are. If that's how highlander -and I'm sure millions of other men out there- feels about hair loss, then that's how he feels. Attacking him and calling him names for that simply PROVES you are the ones who NEED to see a doctor. I've said it before and I'll say it again, if you don't have something good to say, then SHUT THE FU.CK UP AND MOVE ON AND DON'T COMMENT.

On more thing, I hope you two -and others here who are like you- never become psychologists/psychiatrists or anything like that.