this thread went from uplifting to degrading in the blink of an eye, so just like most threads
04-08-2014 06:27 AM
35YrsAfter
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Originally Posted by baldozer
Seriously, who cares and wants to be with women over 35, who have had 40 boyfriends before! And women over 35 are reproductively senile anyway. Men generally want to stay away from them.
When I was 28, I had a girlfriend who told me she had over 100 previous boyfriends. She seemed proud of that but I certainly wasn't impressed.
When you get to be my age 35 is young! When I was 21, 30 seemed old. Cougars and Sugar Daddies are a minority. I remember meeting a guy years ago who was 21, married to a lady in her forties. Not something I would not want to do.
To answer your question; Who cares and wants to be with women over 35? A man past 35.
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04-08-2014 08:22 AM
Notcoolanymore
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Originally Posted by baldozer
Seriously, who cares and wants to be with women over 35, who have had 40 boyfriends before! And women over 35 are reproductively senile anyway. Men generally want to stay away from them.
Difference between a top notch woman and a hood rat right there. Top notch 35 year old hasn't been around the block 50x, and still is in better shape than most 25 year olds. The dusty, nasty, used up 35 year olds are the ones baldozer is speaking of. I avoid those women like the plague, so should all of you.
04-08-2014 10:33 AM
akai
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Originally Posted by 35YrsAfter
When I was in my late twenties and looking thin on top, I did commonly get the cold treatment from women my age. In my own experience, women past 30, seem more concerned about their own looks and less determined to land the trophy face man. 35 can be a humbling age for many women where the grey hairs, wrinkles and assorted sags begin to set in. Around 35, the bald guy with money, self confidence and a solid physique begins looking pretty good to them.
Men with options date younger. If you're 35 with money, confidence, and a great physique you're a fool to be dating 35+ year old women.
04-16-2014 05:30 PM
burtandernie
I respect the iron men that can ignore watching their looks fade away one day at a time because they are stronger then I am. The more important you hair was to your looks I think plays a part in how hard it affects someone. I want my hair and I could give a crap less if I have money, girls or whatever else.
04-16-2014 06:41 PM
Notcoolanymore
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Originally Posted by burtandernie
I respect the iron men that can ignore watching their looks fade away one day at a time because they are stronger then I am. The more important you hair was to your looks I think plays a part in how hard it affects someone. I want my hair and I could give a crap less if I have money, girls or whatever else.
This is the case for me too. For me it is all about looking in the mirror and liking what I see. Everything else is secondary. If somebody can shave their head and look in the mirror and be fine with it, then great, continue to do it. It just isn't for me at this point.
04-16-2014 09:09 PM
redy
Why else would you want your hair?
If you thought you looked good without hair and thought you wouldn't have a problem getting those things, right?
Are you genuinely saying that you only care about your hair because it makes you think you look better, regardless of how other people see you?
step 1, hair ---> step 2, getting those things??
If I thought I didn't need my hair to get those things, I wouldn't give a shit about my hair...
04-16-2014 09:44 PM
Notcoolanymore
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Originally Posted by redy
Why else would you want your hair?
If you thought you looked good without hair and thought you wouldn't have a problem getting those things, right?
Are you genuinely saying that you only care about your hair because it makes you think you look better, regardless of how other people see you?
step 1, hair ---> step 2, getting those things??
If I thought I didn't need my hair to get those things, I wouldn't give a shit about my hair...
That is exactly what I am saying. When I started losing my hair, I was in a long term relationship so my first thought wasn't "oh my god, I will never get laid again".
Suppose you had everything: great job, hot wife, etc. Would you really not give a crap if you looked like shit? I think you would. I definitely would. I have a decent amount of success in my life and an attractive wife, but I am still on this site. Why, because I want to do whatever I can to always try to look my best. I am not going to preach to you guys and say that looks don't matter, because I don't believe that. With that being said being bald doesn't guarantee you will not be able to succeed in life, unless you decide to let that happen.
04-17-2014 04:48 AM
Hicks
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Originally Posted by Notcoolanymore
Suppose you had everything: great job, hot wife, etc. Would you really not give a crap if you looked like shit? I think you would. I definitely would.
This reminds me of Wes Welker.
no doubt hair loss is embarrassing and so is sloppy cloths and being overweight. I'm glad it's working for you humanNature.
You're right about appearance. Think of The Rock not famous and wearing gangster cloths. Speaking of, you guys need to follow him on Twitter, dude is funny.
04-17-2014 10:50 AM
redy
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Originally Posted by Notcoolanymore
Suppose you had everything: great job, hot wife, etc. Would you really not give a crap if you looked like shit?
I take incredible care of myself, at least long-term.
Of course I over-drink every now and then, etc, sometimes I put on a little bit of fat before I notice it, but shit man. If I could just buzz my head and nobody would think twice about it, I'd be so happy with myself... Sure, I love hair - my hair was awesome before it started thinning in the sense of texture, color, etc. But other than something for my to style, it's not who I am. I am the buzzed hair.. But my receding hairline and forehead disagree lately, which is why I had to stop.
I was blessed with height, facial structure that most anyone would consider me at least decent looking, textbook bone structure, a pretty well proportioned body with low body fat. I'm at a top university and about to finish well. I feel like I'm interesting, fun loving, I enjoy long walks on the beach, etc.
What I'm trying to say is that I am very happy with myself other than my hair.
I was not blessed with lasting hair, which seems like the end of my world to me. I am very thankful for what I have, and lucky that I have been able to be comfortable with myself until last year.
Of course I will stay on meds to keep what I have, but I can't deal with being afraid of wind and sweat. I feel like half of a person. I'm emotionally depressed, and I hate it. I like myself, a lot - I am just afraid that other people won't like me any more if I don't fit their perception of what I should look like. I am afraid that girls I am attracted to will no longer be attracted to me - I don't think that it's anywhere near fair that people associate baldness with laziness. I'm in the gym almost every damn day, I'm not lazy. I'm just unlucky with the genetics. If one girl came up to me and told me she didn't give a shit if I had hair, I wouldn't have hair within the hour.
