View Full Version : What makes a man good-looking and youthful?
Highlander
07-16-2012, 09:45 AM
Feel free to add to this, but these are what I believe to be the key to achieving a youthful and attractive appearance as a male.
Face:
Symmetry is incredibly important. There are a lot of people who may be considered attractive, yet lack "traditional good looks". I've found this is typically because of excellent facial symmetry.
Nice skin that is clear, radiant, and free from sagging and wrinkles. This can be achieved through laser treatments, retin-A, and a good skin-care regimen. If you're getting older there are other things like Botox and face-lifts.
A decent hairline takes decades away from one's appearance. A thirty-five year old can look like he's in his twenties with the right hairline and nothing else.
Balanced facial features are necessary. If your jaw is too weak, nose too big it can detract from what might otherwise be a nice face.
Eye brows. No homo. Do something about them if yours are too bushy or you have a monobrow. Defined eyebrows can really set off your upper-face. Just don't go too thin or too feminine.
Body:
V-taper in your torso
Enough muscle that you don't appear skinny. Bitches love definition and strong arms. But be careful not to go too big. You'll find there's a perfect balance whereby you can satisfy both the "skinny and toned" loving crowd, and also the "nice big muscles" crowd.
Broad shoulders. Enough said.
Tracy C
07-16-2012, 01:54 PM
What makes a man good-looking and youthful?
CONFIDENCE!!!
Absolutely nothing makes a man more handsome than confidence.
End of story.
Highlander
07-16-2012, 03:44 PM
CONFIDENCE!!!
Absolutely nothing makes a man more handsome than confidence.
End of story.
Save it for Woman's Weekly. A woman can't stand in a crowded room, look at all the people and go "Wow, look at that guy there. He looks VERY CONFIDENT. I'm going to go and talk to him."
No, confidence helps for sure. But the confidence only helps to carry your good looks. If you are ugly and confident you just seem like the token fat guy who developed a sense of humour to overcome his crippling looks. Or the ugly kid who is really extraverted.
Those ugly and confident people either die alone, or settle for someone their level (in looks). Confidence rarely lets someone punch above their weight in terms of women.
gmonasco
07-16-2012, 04:09 PM
It's always amusing to see guys try to claim that they know more about what women find attractive in men than women do.
Highlander
07-17-2012, 03:35 AM
It's always amusing to see guys try to claim that they know more about what women find attractive in men than women do.
It's amusing, but true. Women don't know what they want in men. In fact, they are brainwashed by their own bullshit women's media.
Go and look up what women on OkCupid had to say about beauty, and you'll see how warped their perceptions are. It's women who think men want a super skinny wife, and women who think they want the nice, sweet guy that will never tell them they're wrong. Of course, we know this is rubbish. Men want a woman who is average to a bit thicker than average. Skinny is not considered attractive. We also know that women are far more turned on by jackasses than they are nice guys.
What women say they want and what they really want are two completely different things. Never take advice from what a woman says a man should be like, as it's a sure fire way to be friendzoned and looked down on as the token nice guy.
Hell, I've tested this myself. Give a girl attention and she'll get bored pretty quickly. Give her a bit then ignore her and she'll go crazy as suddenly you're unattainable. It's ****ing woman psychology 101. Honestly, if women weren't so pathetic in their brainwashing the entire Pick-Up Artist industry wouldn't be booming. Since, well, pick-up stuff DOES work because most women really are that easy and predictable.
P.S. Women still like to pretend they're all cutsey, sweet, and innocent whilst having had over ten boyfriends (sex with all of them), and probably a few one night stands too. I am disgusted with my generation. I think it's time I move to Mexico or Russia and find a real woman who hasn't whored herself out by the age of 14 to the entire football team plus a few dirty immigrants on the side, then thinks she can settle down and live a perfect life with what I've got to offer. Bitch, I have worked my body to the limits. Bitch, I've worked my facial aesthetics to the limit. Bitch, I've worked my mind to the limits. Bitch, I've kept myself pure because I knew temporary carnal pleasure wasn't the path to true happiness. Bitch, do you think you deserve me? Bitch, if we ever had to kiss then all I could think about is how many times you've had another guys D in there. Bitch, you will never get this. Bitch, you will never get a ripped, tall, handsome, well-educated, wealthy husband like me because you didn't work for it. Bitch, you are NOTHING.
Fight Feminism! Avoid Non-Virgin Scum! Boycott the Porn Industry!
VIVE LA RESISTANCE!!!!!!!
Tracy C
07-17-2012, 10:36 AM
It's amusing, but true. Women don't know what they want in men.
You are so unbelievably misinformed.
Highlander
07-17-2012, 03:21 PM
You are so unbelievably misinformed.
Keep telling yourself that. I guess that's why so many women fall in love with serial-killers and "bad boys" despite the common narrative being something along the lines of wanting a "nice guy".
I bet you're turned on by my defiance right now. Be honest.
rdawg
07-17-2012, 06:29 PM
CONFIDENCE!!!
Absolutely nothing makes a man more handsome than confidence.
End of story.
This 100%. There's nothing women hate more(at least 90% of women) than a guy that is really insecure or hates himself. If you are a confident person, it really does overcome many other obstacles.
Don't get me wrong, looks are a factor, especially for the more shallow kind of women, but confidence can truly boost you a few points. Sure you could be balding/bald but if you show that you dont care or care very little then it really does help.
The only thing you should do is try to be optimistic, negativity solves next to nothing.
Tracy C
07-17-2012, 07:32 PM
I bet you're turned on by my defiance right now. Be honest.
You would loose that bet.
25 going on 65
07-17-2012, 09:56 PM
I've kept myself pure because I knew temporary carnal pleasure wasn't the path to true happiness.
That's why you need to make it an ongoing thing and not just temporary.
Highlander
07-18-2012, 04:38 AM
That's why you need to make it an ongoing thing and not just temporary.
Yes, it's called marriage.
Highlander
07-18-2012, 04:38 AM
You would loose that bet.
Loose what? What is loose?
Tracy C
07-18-2012, 08:46 AM
It was a typo...
You would lose that bet.
Highlander
07-18-2012, 09:24 AM
It was a typo...
You would lose that bet.
Please keep the thread on-topic.
25 going on 65
07-18-2012, 10:24 PM
Yes, it's called marriage.
Marriage is what you do when you're ready to give up carnal pleasure, divorce is what you do when you're ready to get back to it :p
aim4hair
07-24-2012, 10:11 AM
2 things make you stay youthful, hair and nice body ( flat stomach).
Most ppl when they age either go bald or have big belly and many get both.
DepressedByHairLoss
07-24-2012, 06:11 PM
Hair is a very huge part of what makes a man good-looking. Hell, that's why we all care about it so much. And that's why most model, actors, and other men who are viewed as attractive in magazines have full heads of hair or something close to that. A man with a Norwood 2 could still look very good, but unfortunately a Norwood 6 is not gonna look nearly as good he would look with a full head of hair. I agree that confidence is sexy, but confidence really stems from a person who is satisfied with their looks. I know for a fact that my confidence was a direct product of my full head of hair. However, now that I'm suffering from hair loss, I'm just a depressed shell of the man that I once was.
hellouser
08-14-2012, 10:08 PM
Save it for Woman's Weekly. A woman can't stand in a crowded room, look at all the people and go "Wow, look at that guy there. He looks VERY CONFIDENT. I'm going to go and talk to him."
No, confidence helps for sure. But the confidence only helps to carry your good looks. If you are ugly and confident you just seem like the token fat guy who developed a sense of humour to overcome his crippling looks. Or the ugly kid who is really extraverted.
Those ugly and confident people either die alone, or settle for someone their level (in looks). Confidence rarely lets someone punch above their weight in terms of women.
LOL, preach it. That was spot on.
BigThinker
12-24-2012, 10:46 PM
Avoid Non-Virgin Scum! Boycott the Porn Industry!
http://www.reactiongifs.com/wp-content/gallery/no/tracey-morgan-nope.gif
Just no. Have fun looking back on the best years of your life and realizing you missed out on being out-going, fun, adventurous, and promiscuous. You need to stop letting the church stigmatize sex for you, or stop using it as an excuse for not getting it in, brah.
aim4hair
12-25-2012, 10:01 AM
http://www.reactiongifs.com/wp-content/gallery/no/tracey-morgan-nope.gif
Just no. Have fun looking back on the best years of your life and realizing you missed out on being out-going, fun, adventurous, and promiscuous. You need to stop letting the church stigmatize sex for you, or stop using it as an excuse for not getting it in, brah.
I don't agree with highlander on this point at all. But if you think that having sex is the only thing that makes you out-going, fun, adventurous, and promiscuous, then there is something wrong with you braah
AlexPetra
12-27-2012, 10:15 AM
Sex is not the only thing that makes us fun and all that. But when we enjoy sex regularly, we feel much better about ourselves. It is a big pleasure and don’t be so puritan about it man! Choose the right ones for you and enjoy life