The Kind of Guy Women Want to be With

[Highlander]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3ftvgUaEJUs

I want to get a body like the guy in that video. It will take me about two years in my opinion. Just when I think I'm making good progress on my aesthetics goal I see this video. ****, I have so long to go that it's just depressing.

Nobody said this was going to be easy...

Also, check 'em. He is NW1.

[PatientlyWaiting]

I don't understand why so many guys here want to look like other other men. I just want to be myself but with more hair.

[Highlander]

I don't understand why so many guys here want to look like other other men. I just want to be myself but with more hair.
That is a healthy attitude. I guess the thing is that I feel so close to perfection. I just need that little something to push me there, and I see that in gym and plastic surgery.

When I see these guys you know they too have had some work done. Not big stuff, but subtle to bring out their best features. I don't see a problem with wanting to have some goals in life. I like to look at people and say "I like those features, I hope I can achieve that one day".

I get inspiration from many places; from models, actors, sports players.

[NotBelievingIt]

Two years?!? you must be over weight and under muscled to begin with. Theres actually nothing terribly impressive about that guys upper body -- of course, I am a guy.

He has low body fat for one, he really doesn't have much of a visible "six pack" (which considering the low body fat means he doesn't have much of a core) and he's hairless. His face is actually on the thin side IMO. Doesn't look like he has any kind of a back either, but we do only get to see him from the front...

*anyway*

[NotBelievingIt]

I want to apologize, that was actually rude - you may very well fit that initial description and its a double whammy mentally with hair loss.

[Davey Jones]

Unless you are considerably overweight, that won't take two years. That's three months of strict diet and HIIT away. If that.

[Highlander]

Unless you are considerably overweight, that won't take two years. That's three months of strict diet and HIIT away. If that.
When you get a body like that in three months, let alone two years, let me know. If that was even remotely possible then every guy would be doing that.

A beginner's SS routine won't give you that bulk - and it is THE best routine there is for a beginner. After one year of SS most will make the switch to an intermediate routine. It takes probably 3-5 years of intense, heavy lifting to reach your body's natural max.

To get his body you need probably two years of heavy lifting, and then a cutting phase to get the body fat down.

[Davey Jones]

You gotta be kidding me.

[the_dude78]

Unless you are considerably overweight, that won't take two years. That's three months of strict diet and HIIT away. If that.

Nah hardly.. I think Scorpion is right on this one. Two years sounds about right if you haven't been doing any lifting at all, maybe less, but definitely more than 3 months.
It took me about two years to get a body very similar to that. Today I'm slightly bigger though. Started out with a full body program for six months and then switched to a two split. And yes, diet diet diet!

[PatientlyWaiting]

I need to start working out too lol. I'm a skinny dude, and I want to get in to law enforcement in the future[years from now]. Don't know how the hell to start. I'm looking in to weight gainers, whey protein. I have a weight bench in my bed room and some weights.

[Davey Jones]

Heck, it just looks like a guy with good muscle shape and not much fat, to me. It wouldn't take more than a few months for the average person to have not much fat, and the specific shape isn't going to come in 2 years or 20. The shape of your muscles at certain sizes is all genetic.

I don't see anything in that video that you need to lift weight much to get.

[25 going on 65]

That girl doesn't look 26 to me. But she's cute.

...what guy?

[Highlander]

Heck, it just looks like a guy with good muscle shape and not much fat, to me. It wouldn't take more than a few months for the average person to have not much fat, and the specific shape isn't going to come in 2 years or 20. The shape of your muscles at certain sizes is all genetic.

I don't see anything in that video that you need to lift weight much to get.
I'm not sure if you're blind, or just very, very naive.

If such a body was achievable in just a few months then every young male would have one. This is common in bodybuilding, where you have noobs coming in thinking they are going to pack on serious muscle all the time. Bodybuilding is hard work, and takes years of dedicated training, eating, and resting.

[PatientlyWaiting]

I just saw the guy in the video link. Are we talking about the guy outside the window that the girl is looking at? I'll have to agree with Davey Jones, he doesn't look like anything inspiring to me. I wouldn't say it takes 2-3 months to get there, cause nothing happens over night. But he just looks pretty lean to me. Isn't that a body you would get on a high-carb diet?

[PatientlyWaiting]

Yeah, the average person can't get a body that ripped in 2-3 months. That's crazy, but I agree that it's nothing to be inspired over.

However, if any of you here have heard of Ricky Hatton, the retired boxer from Manchester, England. You know he use to bloat up to 170-180lbs between fights in his 5' 7" frame, drinking beer every day, eating lots of food. Then for his fights, in 8 week training camps, he would some how get down to a ready and ripped 140 lbs. But boxers go through some really tough training camps, that the average person wouldn't do. ESPN rated Boxing as the #1 physically toughest sport in the world, from a panel of Experts and Scientists of the human body and Olympics.

In between fights he looks like this:

http://i47.tinypic.com/2ag3xhw.jpg

On the right
http://i49.tinypic.com/2z69xc3.jpg

And in a span of 8 weeks he transforms himself to this:

http://i50.tinypic.com/30nhst2.jpg

http://i50.tinypic.com/21juipx.jpg

And what's more impressive was that he never failed to make the limit of 140lbs, he was always spot on 140lbs with no trouble. Keep in mind though, this guy was rich so he could have afford his own cooks and the best training and nutrition coaches in the world. While the average person can't afford this.

[Davey Jones]

If such a body was achievable in just a few months then every young male would have one.

For most guys, a few months of strict diet and cardio is more than they can deal with. That would be why you don't see that body. And the rest wouldn't want a skinny body like that. I like to deadlift too much to want a body that's only good for getting teenage girls wet while you mow their yard.

Not that I don't want to get young girls wet. I'm just settling on a body type that isn't as good at doing that so I can pick heavier stuff up.

[Highlander]

For most guys, a few months of strict diet and cardio is more than they can deal with. That would be why you don't see that body. And the rest wouldn't want a skinny body like that. I like to deadlift too much to want a body that's only good for getting teenage girls wet while you mow their yard.

Not that I don't want to get young girls wet. I'm just settling on a body type that isn't as good at doing that so I can pick heavier stuff up.
Getting teen girls wet while I mow their lawns. Isn't that what life is all about?

Anyway, he is definitely lean, but that is the body women want probably right up until thirty years of age. After that they start to want something more "manly".

[NotBelievingIt]

In other words, you're just after ***** you can use and toss aside rather then a life partner.

Fair enough.

[DepressedByHairLoss]

I hear what all of you are saying. What really pisses me off is that there is nothing stopping people from looking like the guy in that video........except for achieving his full head of hair. If a person wants to achieve his slim figure, it is possible for them to achieve this by exercise, a strict diet, and even supplements. Yet if a person with hair loss wants to get his full head of hair, they cannot do this because there are no legitimate options to regrow hair in today's day and age. I always hear people saying "where there's a will, there's a way" or "anything is possible with hard work", and for most endeavors in life, this is true. My friend who was unemployed for the longest time just recently got a new job through his persistence, hard work, and dedication. I have another friend who used to be short and pudgy, yet through hard work and dedication, he lost a ton of weight and he now has himself a beautiful girlfriend. And PatientlyWaiting, you talked about how you want to put on some weight and muscle in your hopes of going into law enforcement. Hell, this is very possible too, and I'm living proof of that. I used to be a skinny kid yet through hard work, lots of weight-training, and occasional use of supplements like creatine, I'm now a 240-pound big muscular guy and I have been that way for about 13 years. But in terms of hair regrowth, no matter how hard a hair loss sufferer tries, they're not going to be able to achieve a full head of hair. So many of us would work so hard and pay so much just to achieve a full head of hair yet we're not given any effective option to do so. It really boggles my mind. As I mentioned before, if a person wants to put on muscle, not only does he have options to do so, he has a whole grocery store line full of options at GNC to pack on muscle. And those supplements do work. If a person wants to shed weight and look like that guy in that video, it so very possible and within their reach. But if a person wants to regrow their hair, they are not given any effective options to do so. It really pisses me off because in today's day and age, there so many remedies for everything from sagging tits to extreme muscular growth, yet there are no effective methods to regrow hair. Hell, a man can even be turned into a woman, yet no one can supposedly figure out a way to regrow hair (outside of testing on mice, that is), and that is just mind-boggling me.

Lastly, I always say that most of us are not asking for much when we say that we want to regrow our hair. Most of us are not asking for model-type good looks, six-pack abs, or extensive plastic surgery. Most of us are not asking to be the next Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt and become total superstars. All we're asking for is our hair back, something that we were born with, something that many of us always had until recently, and something that was vital to our good looks, our identity, our quality of life, and even our inner well-being. Again, most of us are really not asking for much in the grand scheme of things. All we want is our hair back, that's it.

[friezy]

When you get a body like that in three months, let alone two years, let me know. If that was even remotely possible then every guy would be doing that.

A beginner's SS routine won't give you that bulk - and it is THE best routine there is for a beginner. After one year of SS most will make the switch to an intermediate routine. It takes probably 3-5 years of intense, heavy lifting to reach your body's natural max.

To get his body you need probably two years of heavy lifting, and then a cutting phase to get the body fat down.

hahah that guys body is nothing to brag about

some guys can build muscle faster and loose fat quicker.
it has to do with how your metabolism works and some are luckier than others. i dont mean to brag but when i work out seriously i get rediculously ripped and put on 6 or 7 kgs lean muscle natrually after 4 or 5 weeks no shit . on the other hand i have a mate that i gym with who jabs roids in his legs every day. works out 6 days a week and cant put on muscle for the life of him. hah he is pretty jelous.

[Highlander]

hahah that guys body is nothing to brag about

some guys can build muscle faster and loose fat quicker.
it has to do with how your metabolism works and some are luckier than others. i dont mean to brag but when i work out seriously i get rediculously ripped and put on 6 or 7 kgs lean muscle natrually after 4 or 5 weeks no shit . on the other hand i have a mate that i gym with who jabs roids in his legs every day. works out 6 days a week and cant put on muscle for the life of him. hah he is pretty jelous.

If your friend really is juicing, then there should be no reason he isn't huge. If you are on it, then no matter what you will get massive, and pack on more muscle then you know what to do with.

If you've been ripped before, then putting it back on is much faster and easier. Much like people who have lost a lot of weight put it back on faster and easier.

[the_dude78]

hahah that guys body is nothing to brag about

some guys can build muscle faster and loose fat quicker.
it has to do with how your metabolism works and some are luckier than others. i dont mean to brag but when i work out seriously i get rediculously ripped and put on 6 or 7 kgs lean muscle natrually after 4 or 5 weeks no shit . on the other hand i have a mate that i gym with who jabs roids in his legs every day. works out 6 days a week and cant put on muscle for the life of him. hah he is pretty jelous.

Are you clean? 7 kgs lean muscle mass in 5 weeks is a lot! If this is true, you truly are blessed with super genes.....

Working out six days a week....doesn't sound like your mate is a pro. Only a pro body builder who has been working out for years would do a six day split routine. I think he would be better off doing a full body program 3 days a week and allow his body to rest properly. Do so for at at least 3 months and then switch to a two spilt routine to allow more iso exercises.

But great story...

[the_dude78]

on the other hand i have a mate that i gym with who jabs roids in his legs every day. works out 6 days a week and cant put on muscle for the life of him. hah he is pretty jelous.

Besides, you don't inject steroids every day. Usually once a week(no I have never used it)

[Davey Jones]

Besides, you don't inject steroids every day. Usually once a week(no I have never used it)

Could be HGH. People usually do a time-on/time-off type of thing. For instance, they'll take it Monday through Friday but skip Saturday and Sunday. Really, the only reason to do that is that people have found it doesn't reduce effectiveness that much, but it keeps costs down (to exactly 5/7th the cost). If he has the money, maybe he's doing HGH everyday.

Of course, that poster is being a blowhard on an internet forum. He could be talking mostly out of his ass.

http://mestadelsbilder.files.wordpress.com/2012/05/wcaoz.jpg

[the_dude78]

Could be HGH. People usually do a time-on/time-off type of thing. For instance, they'll take it Monday through Friday but skip Saturday and Sunday. Really, the only reason to do that is that people have found it doesn't reduce effectiveness that much, but it keeps costs down (to exactly 5/7th the cost). If he has the money, maybe he's doing HGH everyday.

Of course, that poster is being a blowhard on an internet forum. He could be talking mostly out of his ass.



I see, I did not know that. But yes, I'm finding everything a little hard to believe :p

[friezy]

If your friend really is juicing, then there should be no reason he isn't huge. If you are on it, then no matter what you will get massive, and pack on more muscle then you know what to do with.

If you've been ripped before, then putting it back on is much faster and easier. Much like people who have lost a lot of weight put it back on faster and easier.

steroids do little to nothing for you to put on weight, all they do is make you recover faster so you can work out more, decrease lactic acid and so on.
if you dont diet correctly while on steroids or work out enough it will do nothing . hahha but m mate eats like 8 meals a day and like i said works out 6 times a week and only put on maby 2 kgs in 3 months.

but ye i agree that its way easier to get riped if uve been ther before.

[friezy]

ye im clean. i just eat allot when im training, prob 7 or 8 meals a day including alot of tuna and chicken and have 2 protein shakes a day.
casein shake before bed i think is important, it is a realy slow release protein that forms a gel in your stomach and maintains muscle in an anabolic state so you dont wake up sore.

also i find sprint training combined with weight training helps alot with speeding up metabolism and builds lean muscle faster. its by far best form of cardio and i think you need cardio in your routine if you want the best results.

and ye and my mate not a pro by any stretch of the imagination.

[Davey Jones]

steroids do little to nothing for you to put on weight

How much was tuition at the International Bro School of Bro-ology?

[friezy]

How much was tuition at the International Bro School of Bro-ology?

haha wtf they obviously make it easier to put in muscle if your working out because they increase your protein synthesis rate but if you are just taking steroids and sitting on your ass all day will do fuk all.

[Davey Jones]

haha wtf they obviously make it easier to put in muscle if your working out because they increase your protein synthesis rate but if you are just taking steroids and sitting on your ass all day will do fuk all.

Dude, don't give in to that nonsense. Half the studies out there on steroids are done with people who are bedridden by trauma or disease. Zero exercise, gains anyway. As long as you are consuming the necessary amino acids to produce muscle, you will put on more lean muscle mass no matter what you do or don't do.

It's why someone with naturally higher testosterone levels (and a better hormone profile in general) is bigger or leaner than someone with lower (or worse) levels, even if they work out the exact same. Yes, without working out, you won't get as many gains, but the attitude that steroids don't help much without exercise is a myth perpetuated on bodybuilding forums by people who are secretly embarrassed by using. Not sure why. I am pro-steroid use. Whatever you wanna do with your own body is your own business, and I don't see any reason to pretend they're something they're not so you don't look like you're "cheating."

If you still don't believe me, that's fair. I'm just some other guy on the internet, no better than the guys on the internet who told you what you think now. But what would you think if their was a study using healthy males that didn't train, and steroids gave them gains? Oh...what's this:

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/12067856

[Davey Jones]

As a side note, if your friend is injecting HGH (or whatever he is taking) everyday, and his gains haven't improved dramatically, then he needs to consider the likelihood that what he is injecting is fake.

And we all need to consider the likelihood that this thread is derailed as shit. Posting the guy all women want to be with:

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-eqF8oF8JQjM/TdWbY9dfLNI/AAAAAAAAAA4/jpbU5UNR9bA/s1600/bruce.jpg

...if only in my dreams.

[Highlander]

As a side note, if your friend is injecting HGH (or whatever he is taking) everyday, and his gains haven't improved dramatically, then he needs to consider the likelihood that what he is injecting is fake.

And we all need to consider the likelihood that this thread is derailed as shit. Posting the guy all women want to be with:

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-eqF8oF8JQjM/TdWbY9dfLNI/AAAAAAAAAA4/jpbU5UNR9bA/s1600/bruce.jpg

...if only in my dreams.

Only beta, single-parent mothers over the age of 35 want to be with Bruce Willis. He has pretty average looks, and is balding.

I wouldn't be surprised if he's already attempted suicide and just decided to stop when he started getting rich.

[Davey Jones]

Only beta, single-parent mothers over the age of 35 want to be with Bruce Willis. He has pretty average looks, and is balding.

I wouldn't be surprised if he's already attempted suicide and just decided to stop when he started getting rich.

Thank god he was rich before he was bald, or maybe we'd have never had Bruce Willis' The Kid.

[the_dude78]

As a side note, if your friend is injecting HGH (or whatever he is taking) everyday, and his gains haven't improved dramatically, then he needs to consider the likelihood that what he is injecting is fake.

And we all need to consider the likelihood that this thread is derailed as shit. Posting the guy all women want to be with:...

.

We should definitely consider the likelihood that he is just full of bs..

[Highlander]

He has no aesthetics. No definition, cheek bones are not prominent, jaw is average, sagging around the mouth, poorly defined nose, generally bad facial structure, features don't compliment each other, odd head shape, brown eyes.

Bruce Willis is the anti-aesthetics in my opinion.

@the_dude78: I think either Davey Jones or his friend are full of shit. One of them is lying, that's for sure.

[Davey Jones]

@the_dude78: I think either Davey Jones or his friend are full of shit. One of them is lying, that's for sure.

What friend? And lying about what? The steroid thing? No, steroids will make you grow whether you work out or not. Do you mean the fact that I want to bang Bruce Willis? You're just going to have to deal with that. I'd lick him up and down if you sprayed all that dirt off first.

http://celebritieshype.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/bruce-willis-bruce-willis1.jpg

Nummy.

[NotBelievingIt]

Bruce Willis is a man about his hair loss and is not afraid to hide it. He looks good shaved or buzzed.

Oh he might wear a piece in a film - but the's playing a god damn role, he has the right too.

But I will lose faith in him if he ever starts wearing one in real life.

[friezy]

Dude, don't give in to that nonsense. Half the studies out there on steroids are done with people who are bedridden by trauma or disease. Zero exercise, gains anyway. As long as you are consuming the necessary amino acids to produce muscle, you will put on more lean muscle mass no matter what you do or don't do.

It's why someone with naturally higher testosterone levels (and a better hormone profile in general) is bigger or leaner than someone with lower (or worse) levels, even if they work out the exact same. Yes, without working out, you won't get as many gains, but the attitude that steroids don't help much without exercise is a myth perpetuated on bodybuilding forums by people who are secretly embarrassed by using. Not sure why. I am pro-steroid use. Whatever you wanna do with your own body is your own business, and I don't see any reason to pretend they're something they're not so you don't look like you're "cheating."

If you still don't believe me, that's fair. I'm just some other guy on the internet, no better than the guys on the internet who told you what you think now. But what would you think if their was a study using healthy males that didn't train, and steroids gave them gains? Oh...what's this:

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/12067856

i did not get anything i have said online. im jst saying wot ive seen and herd from people who happen to be juicing and i know quite a few.
and from wot theyve told me and from wot ive seen personally, if you dont work out properly you wont gain very much mass. yes i no its used by cancer patients and so forth for weight gain but they would have all kinds of hormonal imbalances going on and it would probaby help with weight gain for them but for an average healthy guy i dont think it would do much on its own. i didnt say nothing but it would do little.

and i am not full of shit about my mate he has put on only maby 2 kgs.
he is allot more ripped and can lift more though, so hes gained strength but not much mass.

[Davey Jones]

i did not get anything i have said online. im jst saying wot ive seen and herd from people who happen to be juicing and i know quite a few.
and from wot theyve told me and from wot ive seen personally, if you dont work out properly you wont gain very much mass.

That is what I was referring to when I asked you if you went to the International Bro School of Bro-ology. The patients in those studies did not have "hormonal imbalances." They had wasting diseases that prevented muscle growth, and steroids made them grow muscle despite. Not only do you not have to work out, you don't even have to be healthy to grow on steroids. And even if you still disagree, I posted a study where everyone was healthy.

You're not full of shit, but you are quite the bro-scientist.

[NotBelievingIt]

bro-science has way more followers and thus websites. Its tough to convince people of the fundamental truth when the miracle they want to hear and read about is way more fun to do so and imagine on.


We coined the term ho-science on another forum I visit that talks about health and fitness when its a female eposing some stupidity about muscles and eating.